I honestly hope we haven't given up already. Have you given up?


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fix your own behavior before you start making demands, of me or anyone else. I actually feel a little bit sorry for you, too. I have a feeling that in real life you are a rather lonely person.


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Norm? Now because i choose to understand the how the universe actually works, I am not normal? And you think you you have some sort of moral high-ground? And since I can deal with reality, that makes me abnormal? And people wonder why some of us fight against religion.
For me, what is 'normal' is not relevant to what is good or bad. I'm only referring to the majority as "normal." What is accepted as "normal" is in a constant state of flux. Nowhere did I say anything about having a moral high-ground. That is probably just you assuming anyone who believes in something that is unprovable, is either a door-to-door missionary telling everyone they're Hell-bound, a Westboro Baptist, or a suicide bomber.

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So, since many people cannot deal with reality, they are allowed to make stuff up and teach it to others, to the point of causing genocide and the destruction of numerous societies, just because they cannot cope with the fact that after they die, their, if point of fact, nothing beyond this mortal coil?
And here we have another example of the same generalization. Are you honestly telling me that belief in a god/afterlife means I advocate genocide, just because genocides have been caused by people who believe in a god/afterlife? That implication is absolutely absurd.

The problem is not and never has been belief in a higher power, or an afterlife. The problem has always been the dogmas that have been created based on those beliefs. And even then there are many cases where the violence that is being done in the name of a god is a complete mockery of the alleged word of that god. In the Bible, Jesus talked like a frigging pacifist and instructed his followers to love sinners and non-believers. But in the coming centuries, that did nothing to quell all the urges to wipe out every race of people who didn't agree to worship him.


 

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She admitted in a post above, that she pretty much does not really love anything:

"Anyways, though there is nothing in this world I would grieve over. You know, Just got a phone call yesterday that a close immediately family died and the funeral is planned for the 26th. Now, I feel not a single bit of grief. And family is the thing I find important in this world. If I feel nothing in that case, what else in this world would I grief over."

So no, I'm thinking by both the evidence of that post, and her general behavior here, that she does not only *not* love CoX, she doesn't love much of anything in her life. I will skip the usual psychological explainations/armchair diagnoses and just say that I literally pity anyone who views the world through a lens like that one. A life devoid of joy, devoid of any real connection to other people.... wow. Those facts she divulged speak for themselves. Nothing I could say would make them worse.

As far as telling me to "grow up," Thanks for the advice but given your behavior 'round these parts lately, you're the hardly anyone to be giving out behavioral advice. Flaming, snarking, insulting, put-down after put-down: yeah, you're a force to be respected and I should care what you think.

....Or not! Maybe you and EL there can start dating. Regardless, fix your own behavior before you start making demands, of me or anyone else. I actually feel a little bit sorry for you, too. I have a feeling that in real life you are a rather lonely person.
Just because a person doesnt grieve doesnt mean they dont love. And in the quote above I dont see anywhere where I said I didnt love anything. Not sure how you got that out of that statement. And I'm not lonely at all. Actually I'm already married thank you.


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Evil_Legacy became one of my favorite posters with two words.
"Kick Rocks."
I laffed so hard. Never change, E_L!

 

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I'm thinking mostly of the people who have the "Whoever dies with the most toys wins" line of thinking. There is this subtle game being played where everyone is trying to have more than everyone else. Yes scientifically, this is typically explained as a leftover shard of primitive humans trying to appease potential mates. But it continues long after all virility is gone from the human body, and long after a person is perfectly satisfied with their relationship status. There seems to be a subconscious thought that somehow when the game is over, we're all going to gather somewhere, check the scoreboard, and stroke our egos.
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Really? Feel free to list a couple of the cultures here if you can remember them off the top of your head, because I'd love to learn more about them. Unless you're referring to 'afterlife' in a very literal sense. Reincarnation for instance, I wouldn't describe as an afterlife, because it doesn't require an alternate plane of existence where spirits of the dead persist and convene.
I was thinking re-incarnation.


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Evil_Legacy became one of my favorite posters with two words.
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Yeah, some people posting in here are really pathetic, like this one here.....


Oh, wait.....
Uhm yeah shouldnt go around crushing people's hopes and dreams for the hell of it.


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Evil_Legacy became one of my favorite posters with two words.
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Please post a link to anywheres in these threads where I have insulted others for having feelings, or ridiculed them for trying to create something new and good that would serve not only the person doing the creating, but many others as well.

You've been doing quite a bit of both, and so scoldings over my "bad behavior" or whatever are falling kind of flat. Do you people really not understand that you are coming off as arrogant, personally-detached, flat-affect..... that people like you and eeeEEEEVVVVVilllll Legacy there seem to be enjoying the pain of others more than just a little bit? [You two are the worst, but you are not the only offenders.]

No? I didnt think so. Welp..... here's my closing sentiment. May the pain you people so enjoy watching, not to mention dishing out, come back home to roost one of these days.


 

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Just because a person doesnt grieve doesnt mean they dont love. And in the quote above I dont see anywhere where I said I didnt love anything. Not sure how you got that out of that statement.
Do I really have to deconstruct that for you? If someone dies and you feel NOTHING, you did not love them. From your prior post I can deduce that you pretty much don't love anyone. Or anything.

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And I'm not lonely at all. Actually I'm already married thank you.
If he died, would you care? I'm thinking no. After all, to hear you tell it everything dies or ends and so why would you emotionally invest in anything? Rhetorical question only. We don't have much time left in this game, I would rather be there than arguing about someone's mental health with them. I honestly feel very sorry for you; we usually read about this kind of detachment in textbooks, and here it is in real life.


 

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Please post a link to anywheres in these threads where I have insulted others for having feelings, or ridiculed them for trying to create something new and good that would serve not only the person doing the creating, but many others as well.

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What about the people that you feel that have not as much feelings as you? I guess they dont count huh.

I think the yard bird has already came to roost with you it seems.


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Evil_Legacy became one of my favorite posters with two words.
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Do I really have to deconstruct that for you? If someone dies and you feel NOTHING, you did not love them. From your prior post I can deduce that you pretty much don't love anyone. Or anything.
That is your way of understanding how that works but not how it actually works for me.

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If he died, would you care? I'm thinking no. After all, to hear you tell it everything dies or ends and so why would you emotionally invest in anything? Rhetorical question only. We don't have much time left in this game, I would rather be there than arguing about someone's mental health with them. I honestly feel very sorry for you; we usually read about this kind of detachment in textbooks, and here it is in real life.
If he died, I would care. Would I grieve over the fact that he died? No. We already had that discussion between me and him. And as long as he understand it between me and him, do it matter whether or not you think because I dont grieve that I didnt love him or cared or such? Love and grief are two different emotions from my understanding. It seems that you view it as one emotion or two that cant exist without one or the other.

And if you rather be in game instead of here, is there something stopping you?


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Evil_Legacy became one of my favorite posters with two words.
"Kick Rocks."
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Are you honestly telling me that belief in a god/afterlife means I advocate genocide, just because genocides have been caused by people who believe in a god/afterlife?
Nope.

I am telling you that choosing to make things up rather than face reality, the fact that this will all just end, there is no afterlife, etc. is the problem.

I am telling you that choosing to understand and accept the nature of reality is a wonderful thing.

I am telling you that if one cannot accept the nature of reality and because of it a person or group chooses to make things up to make themselves feel better because they cannot cope with reality, they are the problem.

I am telling you that the problem is implying anyone who can accept reality and strive to understand the universe for what it is might be less capable of having morals.

I am telling you that in the end there is nothing, which makes every moment precious.

You have implied those of us that value logic over emotion are robots that have to work harder to be moral and that offends me. That is what I am telling you.

Just because I hold logic and reason over emotion does not make me an unfeeling robot, incapable of love and grief. It simply means I value logic over emotion and that try to prevent my emotions from controlling my decisions.

To the point at hand, I grieve for the loss of CoH. I will not allow my emotions to lead me on some vendetta against the employees of a company who had nothing to do with the closure, nor will I allow my grief to allow me to lose sight of that fact it's just a game and that MMOs come and go.

Is that clear enough?


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If you are going to reply have the decency to reply to what the picture was aimed at (The quote from you)

In other words; when you can act in a mature manner and not fling insults...then maybe you can demand others do the same. You are no Saint; So get off your high horse you hypocrite


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fix your own behavior before you start making demands, of me or anyone else. I actually feel a little bit sorry for you, too. I have a feeling that in real life you are a rather lonely person.
You've been doing quite a bit of both, and so scoldings over my "bad behavior" or whatever are falling kind of flat. Do you people really not understand that you are coming off as arrogant, personally-detached, flat-affect..... that people like you and eeeEEEEVVVVVilllll Legacy there seem to be enjoying the pain of others more than just a little bit? [You two are the worst, but you are not the only offenders.]

No? I didnt think so. Welp..... here's my closing sentiment. May the pain you people so enjoy watching, not to mention dishing out, come back home to roost one of these days.


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Maybe it's where I've lived and who I've known - but I've known Christians and I've known Athiests, and I've seen far more prosthelytizing on behalf of the Athiests.

Yes, I am a Christian. No, I do not care to discuss it because we speak different languages on the issue and neither of us will convince the other. And while you will call me closed-minded on this, you will not consider yourself so even though there's not a chance in Hades you'll be convinced by anything short of a miracle (and even then you'll claim it's a trick.)


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Nope.

I am telling you that choosing to make things up rather than face reality, the fact that this will all just end, there is no afterlife, etc. is the problem.
I see, so now you are the one who is authorized to dictate who has the moral high ground?

There is no point debating who is or is not facing reality, because the scope of human experience has so far only allowed us to scratch the surface of it. Nobody 'knows' what is or is not 'out there', and anyone else who goes around telling others they are a problem because their assumption of reality is wrong, is a complete hypocrite and is doing so under their own assumptions about reality.

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You have implied those of us that value logic over emotion are robots that have to work harder to be moral and that offends me. That is what I am telling you.
I think you're about 10 pages behind the discussion now. The context of your argument has been absent from this conversation for days. The context of it, was using logic as an excuse for minimizing the accountability of business, for no other reason than, it's business. And in doing so, business is allowed to be amoral, regardless of how destructive it is. As long as it's legal, it doesn't matter if a game is shut down, a thousand people lose their jobs, or ten thousand lose their homes. Also, none of that discussion had anything to do with atheism.


 

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Maybe it's where I've lived and who I've known - but I've known Christians and I've known Athiests, and I've seen far more prosthelytizing on behalf of the Athiests.
Observation bias.


 

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I am Jewish By Injection


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I have not given up.


 

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It may make me seem like an asss to run around crushing people's hopes and dreams, but frankly it's necessary. I've always tried to bring reality to situations like this whenever possible. Plan Z isn't happening. End of story.

But whether the Lackey chick gets more book sales or not, I don't care. I'm also a writer. I understand why she would be doing what she's doing, if that's what she's doing. It's devious, but it's understandable. Whether that's why she's doing it or not, I dunno. But it would make total sense. I mean.. "star power" is someone like Bruce Willis or Barack Obama playing CoH in their free time. Mercedes Lackey, not so much. I suspect she'll benefit more from her actions than SaveCoH will.
Now that you mention it, Angry_Citizen, you have seemed like a bit of an *** on these forums. (So have lots of other people, likely including myself.) We're each dealing with disappointment and anger over CoH ending. I'm inferring you're saving people from what you regard as false hopes and additional disappointment. (Shades of "Please stop trying to save me from myself".) I wish you didn't feel it to be necessary to crush hopes and dreams, but apparently you do. Plan Z *IS* happening. To say that it's not is erroneous. To say that Plan Z hasn't released a playable fan-created MMO yet is accurate. To predict that Plan Z will fail is opinion. End o' that story.

As to the "Lackey chick", I had the pleasure of meeting Ms. Lackey and her husband Larry Dixon at a Fantasy convention (where she was Guest of Honor) approximately a decade ago (and a few cons after that as well.) It seems pretty clear that Ms. Lackey is a fan and player of CoH as much as the rest of us, and like many is offering what she can to help CoH continue. Since you are also a writer, who has presumably met with as much success or more in that field than she, you'll have great insight into how well connected Ms. Lackey might be with science fiction & fantasy fans as well as gaming fans, as well as other professional colleagues. You also know how wide ranging these overlapping circles can be, and friends of friends are sometimes just the ticket. The idea that Mercedes Lackey would involve herself in efforts to Save CoH merely to increase book sales is frankly silly (read: ludicrous) and insulting. Celebrity, like wealth, is relative. Oh, wait, I'm sorry; you already know everything! This is my perception of reality. No doubt your next post will reflect your perception of reality. Here's hoping we can each bring something more constructive and understanding to situations like this.


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I guess it's not so much "given up" as a recognition that NCSoft is a completely unreasonable corporation that has no interest in it's loyal customers. It clearly feels that we're not important and so it made it's decision and then reaffirmed that decision on Oct 2nd, and now it will take a cataclysm to make it change that perspective.

All we can do now is move on to other games or spend any energy we have left dealing with NCSoft and it's board in whatever way we decide is most appropriate.
This. I completely agree with Scarlet. And while I haven't completely abandoned CoX, I've made my peace with NCSoft's decision and moved on to other gaming pastures. But no, there's nothing that any of our efforts will yield at this point save for our frustration. Best to enjoy what time there is left and remember the fun.


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Nope.

I am telling you that choosing to make things up rather than face reality, the fact that this will all just end, there is no afterlife, etc. is the problem.

I am telling you that choosing to understand and accept the nature of reality is a wonderful thing.

I am telling you that if one cannot accept the nature of reality and because of it a person or group chooses to make things up to make themselves feel better because they cannot cope with reality, they are the problem.

I am telling you that the problem is implying anyone who can accept reality and strive to understand the universe for what it is might be less capable of having morals.

I am telling you that in the end there is nothing, which makes every moment precious.

You have implied those of us that value logic over emotion are robots that have to work harder to be moral and that offends me. That is what I am telling you.

Just because I hold logic and reason over emotion does not make me an unfeeling robot, incapable of love and grief. It simply means I value logic over emotion and that try to prevent my emotions from controlling my decisions.

To the point at hand, I grieve for the loss of CoH. I will not allow my emotions to lead me on some vendetta against the employees of a company who had nothing to do with the closure, nor will I allow my grief to allow me to lose sight of that fact it's just a game and that MMOs come and go.

Is that clear enough?
Can you honestly tell me that science, as we know it, fully understands all the secrets of the universe? There is nothing that we do not know about because science has discovered everything that there is to know?

Please, explain the Higgs particle to me in detail.

Also, explain how Einstein's "spooky things happen at a distance". You know, quantum theory and all that. I don't want you to just tell me data from a book. I want you to explain to me in detail how it works. You should know. It's science after all, and Science knows all. Right?

The simple answer is that you can't because science, as we know it, doesn't know everything.


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Can you honestly tell me that science, as we know it, fully understands all the secrets of the universe? There is nothing that we do not know about because science has discovered everything that there is to know?

Please, explain the Higgs particle to me in detail.

Also, explain how Einstein's "spooky things happen at a distance". You know, quantum theory and all that. I don't want you to just tell me data from a book. I want you to explain to me in detail how it works. You should know. It's science after all, and Science knows all. Right?

The simple answer is that you can't because science, as we know it, doesn't know everything.
Different scientific theories suggest that there may be 5, 10, 26, or even more dimensions in the universe... or should it be referred to as a multi-verse? As humans we can perceive only 3 of those dimensions, but it is already a "fact" that there is no god existing in any of them. Amazing, isn't it?


 

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Different scientific theories suggest that there may be 5, 10, 26, or even more dimensions in the universe... or should it be referred to as a multi-verse? As humans we can perceive only 3 of those dimensions, but it is already a "fact" that there is no god existing in any of them. Amazing, isn't it?
If, as you posit, some god existed outside the normal three dimensional space, exactly what evidence do you have that you know what god it is?

None.

Quite frankly, it's as likely to be the Flying Spaghetti Monster as any other.

(Also, you have a very poor understanding of what those extra dimensions imply. Cosmology should probably be left to professionals.)


 

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The simple answer is that you can't because science, as we know it, doesn't know everything.
Indeed, you've hit on half the fundamental truth.

Science doesn't know everything. Religion makes stuff up.

There's a difference between fiction and non-fiction.


 

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If, as you posit, some god existed outside the normal three dimensional space, exactly what evidence do you have that you know what god it is?

None.

Quite frankly, it's as likely to be the Flying Spaghetti Monster as any other.

(Also, you have a very poor understanding of what those extra dimensions imply. Cosmology should probably be left to professionals.)
I have absolutely no clue what god it is, and I do not claim to.

It may be the spaghetti monster. And if the behavior of some individuals in this thread is any indication, give the zealotry snowball another 50 years to roll, and the flying spaghetti monster will be passing the Petri Dish around for Tithe offerings, and followers of the old gods will be getting burned at the stake for defying the teachings of Darwin the Prophet.

(considering that each of those numbers is for a completely different theory with different mechanics, I saw no point in making a tldr; post to differentiate between them, since it's completely unnecessary for the point I was making. I only used it to exemplifying how little of our world we actually know. Perhaps I should've just used string theory as an example. Science says it may be possible, but due to its nature, there likely will be no way of ever testing its validity)

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There's a difference between fiction and non-fiction.
Assuming there's no god requires just as much blind faith as assuming there is one.


 

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Assuming there's no god requires just as much blind faith as assuming there is one.
Wrong. If there is no evidence of X or reason to believe that X exists, assuming that X exists requires a great deal more faith than assuming that X does not exist.