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I made the mistake of going for dual degrees in Computer Information Systems and PHILOSOPHY at the same time.

Silly me.


 

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I want to contrast generic rules of thumb with college and reality.

1) Multiply your credit hours by three to calculate the time you need for classwork.
--You will be surprised how quickly you can get things done when you're against a hard deadline. If you are efficient, you can get your time to a 1:1 ratio.

2) Achieving degrees is the end-all for guaranteed employment
--Attitude is one of the biggest characteristics employers seek. They can train a poodle to do your job if they wanted to. Most companies will spend the effort to train you in any skill if they believe you are worth the effort. Degrees wind up being a foundation for your future.

3) Each subsequent degree is harder.
--Each subsequent degree is easier as it is more specialized, and focuses on the field you enjoy. If you choose to further your education after undergrad, it becomes more enjoyable.

One last piece of advice:
Stay in tune with your passions. I was in the first year of my doctorate when I realized I was getting a degree for a career I had no interest in pursuing. I was burned out and frustrated. There is nothing wrong with leaving a field because something else interests you. I certainly was talented in this field, but hating your job is a very poor way to live your life. It has been said that there are those that get a job to pay to do the things they love and that there are those that the job is the thing they love. I believe the latter will always be more rewarding.


 

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Tonality just reminded me of something else.

You're now going from EDUCATION BY LAW to EDUCATION BY CHOICE.

Get the most you can out of it, LEARN all you can. Do all your work, ask your professors all the questions you can. Why? Because YOU are PAYING for it. Why not get the most for your money?

I wish someone had told me that when I was going in.


 

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Tonality just reminded me of something else.

You're now going from EDUCATION BY LAW to EDUCATION BY CHOICE.

Get the most you can out of it, LEARN all you can. Do all your work, ask your professors all the questions you can. Why? Because YOU are PAYING for it. Why not get the most for your money?

I wish someone had told me that when I was going in.
This is very, very true. I teach at a university, and I'm boggled at how willing students can be to waste their education. Some are there because their parents are paying/making them (in which case, I have to sarcastically thank the parents for sending their completely uninterested kid into my classroom), but there are plenty that seem to forget that they chose to go to school and are paying a LOT for it. I do my best to teach my classes well and help my students out, and it bothers me when students don't ask questions. If I had a nickel for every time a student said "oh, I wish I had asked this weeks ago, it all makes sense now," I would be a very rich man.

So don't sit on your questions, ask them. Engage with that education you're paying for. Yes, part of the whole experience is making friends, having fun, etc., but you are paying for the education part. You could make friends and have fun out of college, and for a lot cheaper. So don't neglect that education part.

Time management really is key for college, as well. Figure out how long you need to write a good paper, to study for that test, etc. Some people take longer or shorter than others, and you have to find out what works for you. You also need to balance out with your other classes, and your own fun time. If you can't resist not gaming or something else, avoid it, but you should be able to balance doing fun things, studying, and working. I did all three in college (I played video games, Ultimate Frisbee, and a lot of other fun things, not to mention working a lot, and got a 3.5 in college, so it can be done).


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Don't lose confidence in yourself. You can do it. If a topic is too hard at first, keep trying, ask questions, don't be afraid to admit you don't understand and ask and question until you do. Persistence will get you there, you have the equipment to learn engineering, but it then takes effort - and you seem set to put in the effort. Don't beat your head on a brick wall though if something is not coming clear after your own efforts, reach out and ask someone. A classmate, a teacher, TA, even a librarian... your friends... a new viewpoint can often get you past the hurdle.

And the most important thing I learned in college is that some things are simply not known by anyone. I'm not talking about conspiracies or 'the truth is out there' type things or 'things man was not meant to know' - these are ordinary things that someone will know someday and everyone will know eventually - but right now, no one knows yet. So don't be surprised when you start learning where the edges of human knowledge are when you study your higher subjects.


 

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Can't help but feel the forums will feel a little different with you gone, mang.

Still, you're making a very solid decision, and I wish you the best of luck. The biggest advice I can offer in this is to get all of your feelers out in the first year of college. Figure out what is, and is not, within the realm of possibility with your class schedule. You may think five classes/week sounds like an easy to maintain number now, but from experience... Some classes are just that much more intensive out of the classroom, as they are in. Work on trying to gauge the difference now, and give this some serious consideration for classes that you think you may have trouble with.

Personally, for reasons beyond my understanding, I have a mental block with accounting. Can't do it for the life of me, despite doing crazy calculations all of the time out of sheer random desire. For every one hour I spent in class, I spend roughly 5 out of class trying to wrap my head around things. For other things (computer maintenance/repair), I could spend maybe an hour out of class for every two in class (conscious or not) and sail through. Same with most of my writing courses, for that matter. Know, understand, and recognize your strengths and weaknesses (which I doubt you have a problem with, but it never hurts to restate) and tailor your schedule to fit with how you roll.

First year is a great year to do a mulligan if you have or want to. Everything after that starts to have more importance, but this last bit of advice I'll give you is perhaps the most important.

Don't panic.

You can always try again (at some expense, mind).

Again, good luck out there, mang, and hope things turn out for the best for you.


 

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Don't panic.
And don't forget your towel!


 

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And don't forget your towel!
I was going to throw that in, but darnit. I was being serious with it, and didn't want to ruin the moment. How often do I get SRS? I mean, really.


 

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midnight.. So what's my advice?

If you hate getting up early or suck at it, don't take early classes. Schedule something a little later so you can at least function. Second semester was better for me cause I took 10 AM classes so I was able to get more sleep.

If you're living on campus, don't eat too much of the cafeteria food, even if it's all you can eat. Trust me, you'll thank me in 4 years when you get out of school.

Some of your profs will think that their class is the only class you're taking and will assign a metric *** ton of homework. I'd suggest talking to some other students to see who the good profs are. Keyword here is "good", not the "easy" ones. Unless you don't plan on learning a damn thing, take the easy profs.
A hundred times this. While I'm more of a 'get up early/finish early' type of gal when it comes to work, I hated getting up early for classes. I managed to schedule most of my stuff to be late mornings or early afternoons with the occasional 7-10 p.m. class (no choice there sadly) to top it off.

The good profs are the profs that will listen to you, speak with you and be tough but fair. They know you have other classes and that you're young as well, so the work will be steady but not unbearable.

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But the main thing I wanna stress is prioritizing/time management. It wasn't until my 3rd year of college I was able to figure out how to do this effectively. I was taking 16 credits, working part time, practicing martial arts 3 times a week, working out, hanging out with friends, studying/doing homework, and still managed to play 2-3 hours of CoV/Planetside/popular-game-of-the-week several nights out of the week. And I still managed to finish that semester with a 3.5 GPA. Basically what it boils down to is how serious are you gonna take your education. A lot of students I saw were just there cause they were coming out of high school and they didn't wanna just sit at home or their parents forced them to go to school. If you really wanna go somewhere, do it. Take it seriously, but not too seriously. Try to find some time to relax, unwind, have some fun and shake things up so you don't get burned out. You also don't wanna be one of those dudes who ONLY studies. I would definitely recommend trying to make friends.
This. I managed 3 years of University + part-time weekend work + socializing and relaxing as well. Try to find people that share your interests. A lot of Unis here (I guess colleges in the States) have "Frosh Weeks" and "Frosh Guides" to help you with campus orientation.
You'll get friends soon enough. People will hang out and you'll like some of them or go meh.

You're not going to ace every class, heck you'll probably fail a few! But at some point you'll learn where you went wrong and grow from that point. Oh and...I don't know how your situation is, but if you can at all avoid student loans/bank loans for your schooling, that's the ideal scenario. I ended up with "only" 8,000 CDN in debt (paid the rest with work) and I consider myself lucky.


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Good luck to you A_C. It's been great reading your posts on the forums and it was a lot of fun teaming with you, even though I didn't team with you much. You've always been quite good at giving well reasoned arguments so I imagine you'll do quite well in school.

So good luck and definitely come back to visit for the reactivation weekends. It won't be quite the same without you.


 

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Huh- best of luck, A_C.

Couple of fragments of advice from me, although a lot has been covered already; if you go after your studies with the same intensity you seem to bring to the table to a lot of stuff... make sure you make time to relax. You can be 'handling' your coursework without difficulty, but be spiralling into burnout at the same time, because 'college' has become an obsessive, single-focus task. Get away from things every so often, especially if, like me, you can hit the "THE WALLS ARE CLOSING IN!" point with deadlines >.O

If you have even mild difficulties with your hearing... bring a decent recording device of some sort into class, especially to start with; enough profs have a horrible habit of mumbling that even people with exceptional hearing can run into difficulties, and you don't want to miss the content of the first three lecture because you have no idea what Professor Mushmouth-McDoesn't-Hand-Out-Outlines said.

Anyways, take care of yourself, and try not to de-orbit anything onto my house, eh?


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Thanks for the good times, A_C. Come back for a visit and I'll plant for Fallout and see if we get that elusive Happy_Citizen again.

Good luck! An education is worth the sacrifice and I'm sure you'll do well.

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...AC is going to college on August 24th, a mere week from today. I will be going to a small community college in central Texas in order to acquire some credits cheaply (along with a host of other reasons, but that's the main one), and after a year, I'll transfer to one of three universities (UT Austin, UT Arlington or Texas A&M) to complete a degree program focused on Aerospace Engineering. Yup.. AC's going to be a freakin' rocket scientist, if he's smart enough and can hack it...
Good luck and never forget that no achievement is ever a justification to rest on your laurels. Always keep growing.


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Advice about college:

Enjoy it. It's a time of learning and finding yourself. It can be the greatest time in your life, if you let it. Stretch yourself both intellectually and socially. It's not just about learning from books it's also about learning who you are. Soak it all in.


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Wow... goodbye AC, it's always sad to see a familiar face leave.

Best of luck with your education


 

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AC is going to college on August 24th, a mere week from today. I will be going to a small community college in central Texas in order to acquire some credits cheaply (along with a host of other reasons, but that's the main one), and after a year, I'll transfer to one of three universities (UT Austin, UT Arlington or Texas A&M) to complete a degree program focused on Aerospace Engineering. Yup.. AC's going to be a freakin' rocket scientist, if he's smart enough and can hack it.
You'll be able to hack it, of this I have no doubt. As for advice regarding college, here it is:

  • As explained very well by TonyV, your attendance is not compulsory. This freedom is so new that it does catch many of us. I did me, my first time around during my last semester. I dropped out of college when I went straight out of high school and while this was a contributing factor, it was not the only thing. My biggest problem was that I did not have a plan for my escape err eduction(which Tony also talked about). In other words, I did not know what I want to be when i grew up then.
  • 100 and 200 level classes are weed out classes. They are in many ways tougher then the high level courses. The biggest sticking point is that they are generalized overviews of the subjects. As a result, they typically cover a heck of a lot more information then they higher level ones. With these, it is important to keep up. If you allow yourself to fall behind, you will be trying to cram way too much into your noggin' for the tests. It will explode. Ok, ok not really. But, you will more then likely not retain it. I had gotten this advice myself and never allowed myself to fall into this trap.
  • Credit Cards have been covered. Signing up for one and using it consistently (like to fill up on gas) but more importantly paying it off on time is the best advice I can give. Understand what credit is, how it works, and how to use it. Building your credit is not a bad idea but, you want to build good credit.
  • Going back to MortisEques's point about work load. Be prepared to spend at least 1 hour outside of class for every credit hour you take for studying and assignments. This will give you an idea on your work load will be.
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Anyway... thanks, everyone, for making my time on this game something special. This game would be nothing without its tight-knit community of gamers and developers. You're truly amazing.
Thank you for all the same reasons. Good luck on all your future endeavors, where ever they may lead.

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Aside from the advice people have already stated (always going to class is huge), I would also suggest actively participating in class. If you have a question, ask it. If you don't feel comfortable talking in front of a lot of strangers, corner the prof. after class. The fact is, if the person asigning the grades knows who you are and knows that you've expended some effort trying to learn the material, you are more likely to get a better grade.

Also, in engineering especially, keep your grade point average above 3.2 - D may stand for diploma, but it also stands for unemployeD. With a 3.2 you can probably get a free ride to grad school (the rule of thumb being: if you have to pay for engineering grad school, you shouldn't be in engineering grad school) or get you a job without experience (assuming you're going into the traditional fields - (i.e. not computer/software engineering - because co-ops and interns in traditional engineering fields rarely do any actual engineering work anyway). Still, co-oping and interning can help get you a job at the places you co-op or intern at.

Finally, and perhaps most importantly, you will get screwed by the school. Just accept it. It doesn't matter where you go or what you study, the school will a) sell more parking permits than there are parking spaces, b) neglect to tell you that XYZ 120 is a required class to graduate in your major, c) lose some important form that you turned in, etc. When things like that happen, just remember that your goal is a degree, and that 1 (or 3) more semester(s) extra because of someone else's mistake is small potatoes compared to the rest of your (hopefully) long life. 4-6 years out of 90, which should make the remaining 65 more comfortable.

And just think, when you're out of school, you'll have all weekends to play the game.

EDIT: BTW, UT Austin is an awesome engineering school. Easily in the top 10 in the nation (probably top 5, to be honest).


 

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God Bless you AC. I've seen your posts for years and while I didn't always agree with you I did always value your opinion. You are one of a select few on these boards I can say has a truly deep appreciation for this game and a great head on your shoulders. I'll pray for you and that you find success in your chosen field. I thank you for all your stimulating posts and sometimes hard headed opinions that led to so many heated yet fun conversations. Go with God man and may you find happiness in your life and if you ever get a chance drop on by and say hi to the gang from time to time

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You may have been wondering when I'd be soliciting advice... well, this is it. I'm a first generation college student. None of my friends are college graduates (except for the two I've mentioned by name above), none of my family are college graduates, and in general, I am completely and totally alone in my desire to pursue higher education. I know nothing about it - nothing. If anyone, anyone has any tips they wish they'd known, or habits they wish they'd gotten into, or just anything you can think of... please, let me know now.
It's been said before, but I'll reiterate: go to class. That may sound like a no-brainer, but you'll discover many, many reasons not to go to class. Ignore them.

Also, get plenty of sleep... at night, not during class.

Finally, have an escape. It doesn't have to be an all-consuming thing like CoH or another on-line game (in fact, it really shouldn't be), but a small hobby to re-center your brain will actually help your studies. But it should be something active (like reading) rather than passive (like watching TV).

Good luck!


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I've been following these boards for years, despite not having posting rights, and I've come to know you as a thoughtful individual who has had a lot to contribute here. No doubt you'll do the same in the world of academics.

Congratulations on your choice to pursue higher education and good luck!


 

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The game, however, must go. I cannot sit idly by and be sucked into a game when education demands my concentration. I realise I will not be that busy during college, especially the first year, but I am not going to run the risk.
You will be busy, even in your first year. Academically that may be your easiest year for two reasons: enthusasm (new stuff always has a better chance of keeping your attention) and off course, it's the year of the basic stuff. Sometimes I wish I had been able to start with the hard stuff first, when I was extremely enthusiastic about it!!! It's the second year and going forth that you may start to feel your breath lacking even if the subjects don't become any harder.

Anyways, I said you would be busy that year and still have to say why: it's a new life and as such, you will be busy with all new relationships. You need to take care of those friendships and they may take too much care of you (too many parties.) So you will see little time for games anyways... unless you end in one of the cool geek circles, that is


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You may have been wondering when I'd be soliciting advice... well, this is it. I'm a first generation college student. None of my friends are college graduates (except for the two I've mentioned by name above), none of my family are college graduates, and in general, I am completely and totally alone in my desire to pursue higher education. I know nothing about it - nothing. If anyone, anyone has any tips they wish they'd known, or habits they wish they'd gotten into, or just anything you can think of... please, let me know now.
I guess my biggest tip is: don't be ashamed of look stupid. I say this as one of my biggest issues back in the day. You will be surrounded with great minds and many professors (not all) just LOVE to humiliate their students with their all mighty brains. You may eventually find they are not that smart. I still to this day rejoice on the day I corrected a professor 3 times in one single class. Anyways, the point is: you will meet at least one professor like this during your entire education and that's if you are lucky. Chances are not bad you may find more than one per semester, though.

Don't let these humiliating "I'm smarter than you and am here to prove you stupid" professors discourage you. As for their intent, some of them are serious bullies while others are just trying to roughen up their students. It does not matter, just imagine they are challenging you. Make it your own goal to prove you are smart even if they keep humiliating you. In short: It's the Army Physical Training for the Brain.


 

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Well, good-bye and good luck.

All of the advice here is good, I won't repeat it.

As somebody who was also the first in the family to go on to higher education, I have one more suggestion: Be prepared to try harder than you did to get this far. In families where the parents have been to college, they tend to pass on the study habits early. Mine didn't have that experience, and I got through school with good grades mostly on being smart and showing up. In college, you probably can expect to have to study and work on assignments much more than you did in high school, for the same grades -- especially when you move on to the university.

Community colleges are, in my experience great at actually teaching. Universities, again just in my experience, can be more about figuring out how to teach yourself. Professors sometimes don't even want to deal with undergraduates. You have to know how to study and research. You seem to have a solid language ability, so you should be well capable of this. Just be prepared.


 

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I was a first gen college student in my family as well and let's just say I graduated before you were born without getting into how long before you were born...

There's a lot of good advice here from the gang so I will only add the two things that tripped me up and nearly got me:

1. You are stopping playing this wonderful game. I would stay up way too late playing games (DND, Risk, and eventually some games on my Apple II). You must keep that focus that you have because it is right.

2. Don't let a guidance counselor guide you on a bad path. I knew classes before 9am would not work for me but I got pressured into an 8am and darn near lost my scholarships because of it (fortunately I could take it pass/fail which did not affect my GPA so I had to fail it).

Good luck and have fun and look forward in several years to returning to this game which I not only believe will still be around but will be even better.


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Best of luck to you in your future endeavors.

And stop back by and say hi on the free re-activate weekends.

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