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The all gay SG? What i don't get is why people are so suggestive about not doing it for fear of bigotry/flame/abuse. That essentially is reverting back to years ago when being gay was a shameful thing. Then there's the argument that why should they, its only a game. Well to me i think well why shouldn't they? What possible direct harm could come from making an SG that consists of GLBT members? Then you have isn't it like racist remarks, having all GLBT groups? No, its just like having themed SG's, or French SG's etc. Again i wouldn't expect segregation to take place if a straight person wished to join. I do think on that point... what reason does a straight person have for joining anyway? |
now on to the racist remark or to be correct discriminatory argument while yes having a GLBT is some what similar to having a Themed group or language group its also not the same.
In the first instance themed groups are normal very specific in there make up and purpose and that theme normal exists only within the game things like a all tank SG or a all Defender SG and while yes a all tank SG mite discriminate against the other ATs there's nothing stopping the player in question rolling a tank and joining them also from personal experience the One AT SGs were more about the further development of the AT in question and they would freely team with others. The SG was simply there for them to discuss tatics and powers it was more like a hobby club than a true SG.
Then you have the theme X SGs the all robots, the all female, the all redeemed demons SGs again while on the surface they seem very much like the idea of the LGBT SG in that they create a connection for the group but that connections in game again there's nothing stopping a player rolling a character that matches the group even the all female group could be made up of male and female players they would just all have female toons.
finally the language groups this had the closest relation to the proposed LGBT group but there also not the same some people can speak multiple languages so its not a great leap to imagine they may join a predominantly french speaking SG or German speaking SG because they can understand whats going on and can interact with the members the grouping has most likely come about as a means of communication to allow people that speak the same the language to interact in the bigger game world.
so back to the idea of a LGBT you suggest that strait (stupid word but never mind) people could join it as well that being the case its no longer a LGBT group is it? the only way it could be a LGBT group is if only those of that persuasion were allowed to join (how would you know if they truly were anyways?) so that would be discrimination. you also ask
"what reason does a straight person have for joining anyway?"
What are you suggesting here that GLBT and S people have nothing in common? were all playing the same game maybe the player who just happens to be strait ends up on a team with a couple of the members of the GBLT team and they all get on the strait player notices that the the other members are part of the same SG and asks can he join?
should they not be able to invite him into there SG or dose the fact that he happens to have a different sexual preference from them mean that they should shun him?
Well the direct harm is pretty obvious you could get some moron come along and start the abuse tho I'm sure they would be swiftly told where to go by the Mods.
now on to the racist remark or to be correct discriminatory argument while yes having a GLBT is some what similar to having a Themed group or language group its also not the same. In the first instance themed groups are normal very specific in there make up and purpose and that theme normal exists only within the game things like a all tank SG or a all Defender SG and while yes a all tank SG mite discriminate against the other ATs there's nothing stopping the player in question rolling a tank and joining them also from personal experience the One AT SGs were more about the further development of the AT in question and they would freely team with others. The SG was simply there for them to discuss tatics and powers it was more like a hobby club than a true SG. Then you have the theme X SGs the all robots, the all female, the all redeemed demons SGs again while on the surface they seem very much like the idea of the LGBT SG in that they create a connection for the group but that connections in game again there's nothing stopping a player rolling a character that matches the group even the all female group could be made up of male and female players they would just all have female toons. I'll agree with the first two comments there they are not as similar, but the idea and premise is the same essentially. It was only an example no need to go poking holes this isn't a full report on gay discrimination within the MMO community. finally the language groups this had the closest relation to the proposed LGBT group but there also not the same some people can speak multiple languages so its not a great leap to imagine they may join a predominantly french speaking SG or German speaking SG because they can understand whats going on and can interact with the members the grouping has most likely come about as a means of communication to allow people that speak the same the language to interact in the bigger game world. so back to the idea of a LGBT you suggest that strait (stupid word but never mind) people could join it as well that being the case its no longer a LGBT group is it? the only way it could be a LGBT group is if only those of that persuasion were allowed to join (how would you know if they truly were anyways?) so that would be discrimination. you also ask "what reason does a straight person have for joining anyway?" No thats not the point of the SG as far as i was aware, as i suggested it would be a place to gather, a point they can as many said be themselves, let their hair down (or perhaps put it up ), and otherwise chat and talk. What are you suggesting here that GLBT and S people have nothing in common? were all playing the same game maybe the player who just happens to be strait ends up on a team with a couple of the members of the GBLT team and they all get on the strait player notices that the the other members are part of the same SG and asks can he join? should they not be able to invite him into there SG or dose the fact that he happens to have a different sexual preference from them mean that they should shun him? No I'm not so don't please put words in my mouth or lead my statements in other directions. The statement was what reason does a heterosexual person have for wanting to join an all GLBT group? i never once stated that they couldn't shouldn't or wouldn't be able to join. In fact i encouraged it if you read i stated: "Again i wouldn't expect segregation to take place if a straight person wished to join." |
Also, i joined an "All french" group on another MMO of mine because of the people and the language. It was still an all french group regardless of the fact that i was in it. (Think of it as a guest.)
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Sorry for sticking the words in but my point is at what point dose the LGBT group just become another group to my mind its only a LGBT group when there are just LGBT in the group as soon as some one who's strait joins that group it becomes a LGBTS or in other words just another group.
So to my mind its far better to create a open group that's accepting of all regardless of there sexual preference.
Also why is it GLBT? aren't these really 4 different groups? so what exactly do they have in common if the groups open minded to accept GBLT why cant it open just a bit further and accept straight as well?
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"Also, i joined an "All french" group on another MMO of mine because of the people and the language. It was still an all french group regardless of the fact that i was in it. (Think of it as a guest.)"
the bit in bold shows my point you joined the group because you had common interests the same could happen with a strait player joining the GLBT group
The all gay SG? What i don't get is why people are so suggestive about not doing it for fear of bigotry/flame/abuse. That essentially is reverting back to years ago when being gay was a shameful thing. Then there's the argument that why should they, its only a game. Well to me i think well why shouldn't they? What possible direct harm could come from making an SG that consists of GLBT members?
Then you have isn't it like racist remarks, having all GLBT groups? No, its just like having themed SG's, or French SG's etc. Again i wouldn't expect segregation to take place if a straight person wished to join. I do think on that point... what reason does a straight person have for joining anyway? |
I would not begrudge any group the right to create a SG that caters to their individual preferences - what I do question is why they feel it necessary to segregate themselves by actively excluding people who do not meet those preferences. An all-homosexual SG sends a message to non-homosexuals, which is "WE DO NOT WANT YOU". That may not be the intention, but that is the implication. Just as an all-white, or all-black group would be offensive to me. I want to meet people of all social, ethnic, social and economic backgrounds. I've made some good friends that way, including people that definitely do not fit the criteria I would normally choose for my own friends.
At the end of the day, I don't care if someone's homosexual, straight, white, black, asian, purple, polygamous, puritan or prostitute. I just care if they're a nice person or not, and I don't care if they're any of those things. But anyone that feels the need to shout about it strikes me as a bit pretentious, which is guaranteed to make them slide a little closer to "not nice" on my personal scale of their worth.
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Y'know, in RP, my main is a part alien, part feline hybrid who is not only openly lesbian, but is also polyamorous AND married to another woman. You couldn't really GET a bigger target for discrimination if you tried, yet the only time she's faced any prejudice in the game was in backstory I've had to add for story purposes, and even that wasn't particularly strong. I've just never ever seen any discrimination, either real or pretend, in CoH, at least on the EU side of things.
Kinda leaves me wondering why people are talking about a problem which, in CoH at least, doesn't actually appear to exist. |
I have never hidden the fact and have been playing on and off since EU launch, and thats one person in that whole time. Moreover the guy was an ***** and I wasn't the only one who blocked him... he spent an evening in AP shortly before he left swearing and calling people names...
Wonder why he left...
*As in I wear gender inappropriate clothing and shave parts of my body that most people who I share a (birth) gender with don't.
Sorry for sticking the words in but my point is at what point dose the LGBT group just become another group to my mind its only a LGBT group when there are just LGBT in the group as soon as some one who's strait joins that group it becomes a LGBTS or in other words just another group.
So to my mind its far better to create a open group that's accepting of all regardless of there sexual preference. Also why is it GLBT? aren't these really 4 different groups? so what exactly do they have in common if the groups open minded to accept GBLT why cant it open just a bit further and accept straight as well? Also "Also, i joined an "All french" group on another MMO of mine because of the people and the language. It was still an all french group regardless of the fact that i was in it. (Think of it as a guest.)" the bit in bold shows my point you joined the group because you had common interests the same could happen with a strait player joining the GLBT group |
This is the only game where there has been officiated pride parties.
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Well, I don't know how you folks in the US handle it; but in the EU this is a total non-issue as people just do that anyway. No one bats an eye in the slightest. In fact, you could be dating a donkey and we wouldn't bat an eyelid.
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As for an sg i really don't understand why me and 4 other gay guys cant have an sg together, we are friends and wanna be in a super group what's wrong with that? And even if the Devs said you cant do it, how the hell are they gonna prove that one of us isn't straight ?
Plus COX is as camp as a row of tents anyway lol. 1 more camp sg aint gonna make a lot of difference.
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You are using it out of its context. Twisting words. If I said "I climbed a tree and helped a cat down". I can't trust you not to turn it into me climbing a tree to help a bird down.
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You said you were leaving the thread (which obviously didn't happen) as we were entering the realms of real life. YOU bought up the subject of Pride in the first place, so therefore you started the whole real life bit in the first place, though to be honest, quite why you are even posting here as the whole thread is about stuff that is happening in real and gaming life, is beyond me.
If you have nothing constructive to say, then maybe you should do what you suggested previously.
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Now if any of the devs are homosexual and do get married (or equivalent) [/QUOTE]
In the UK we operate a separate yet equal policy to unions, meaning straight cant have a civil union and gays cant be called married
In the UK we operate a separate yet equal policy to unions, meaning straight cant have a civil union and gays cant be called married
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I actually said married (or equivalent) just as this is an international forum and the legal term (and indeed acknowledgement of same sex relationships) could vary greatly from state to state.
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And yet in common parlance we refer to gay marriage, even if it's not legally a marriage.
I actually said married (or equivalent) just as this is an international forum and the legal term (and indeed acknowledgement of same sex relationships) could vary greatly from state to state. |
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How do you know? The sexuality of NPCs and contatcs isn't mentioned that often in their bios - quite a few signautre characters could be non-unhappy.
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This went from looking for a g ay SG to a sex topic.
I always thought it best just to keep things like this to yourself. Saves a bunch of flaming, and is polite.
Should we have a Gay Lounge?
'bf aggro' or 'gf aggro' or 'wife aggro' or 'husband aggro' give no ibdication of the gender of the person saying it, so i dont see why gays n lezzers cant use them too?
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