Female Only Server

Just ignore. It seems to work for all sorts of issues.

Or even better...Come up wit something unattractive about your toon.

I play on Virtue and while my toon is pretty sexy looking, I made her Narcoleptic. So when bad RP happens I can just use the Away AFK Sleep Emote, and say Im RPing. Then I just don't respond.

Ok, if you are serious, try this:
1) Get off Vent. A female voice on voicechat will always get you harrassed. mostly by 13-yr-old boys who imagine you look more like Olivia Munn than Velma (nm, scratch that, Velma is kinda nerdcute).
2) Petition the Devs to change your Global to something butch, like Flint Beefstick.
3) Change your forum icon from something other than your real face.
4) Once you get back in game, don't tell anyone you are female. If someone asks, don't reply or say something like: 'Weeeeelll . . .at least {your character name} is female . . ..'. If they harrass you because you are playing a female character, they are stupid. 90% of the female toons are males. Use ignore, kick 'em or leave the team.
A few less serious suggestions:
5) Avoid the words 'cute' and 'outfit', particularly together. 'Cute' should not be used to describe a piece of a costume, only an entire female character (like Joanna in the Prae Trading House, yum).
6) When building a character, slide the Chest slider one click further right than you think it should be.
7) To make sure other players think you are male, be sure to: Any time a mission has the new Mother Mayhem in it, express incredulity for her glandular assets. Calling her Mother Mamhuge is usually enough.

Or you...and this is from one lady to another...can buck up, and take it. I mean, either put someone on ignore or realize that people in MMO's will focus on a womans body and you will either feel degraded or simply live with the fact that this is a game in which, like all other games have pervs in it.

Hit ignore, file harassment, and take a screen print.

If the harassment is constant then thats the process. This does not mean everyone who tells you your toon is a hot piece of apple pie needs to get a harassment violation. But as long as you are not just sitting around weeping because it happens, and you generally tell people you are not interested in that kind of thing...then it should be ok.

Real Life Situation.

Im sitting at a bar. Dude walks up, flirts and says something I don't like. I can A) Walk away without a word (Works in the real world, not in the digital one) B) tell him Im not interested and that he needs to move on, cuz he aint getting me, C) Go to security if dude is not leaving me alone, or D) go home and cry in the fetal position.

I mean, You "need" to stick up for yourself. In the gaming world you have options like in the real world, and if somone is making you uncomfortable you need to take matters into your own hands. Which in most cases I listed as above.

You should also take things with a grain of salt. I dress my toon in common super hero style outfits. Lot's of skin, and lots of big hair and long legs. Why? Cuz Im a comic fan and thats just how it goes in my head.

But If Im wearing a short skirt in a bar, I still have the right to say no, and you do to in this spandex wearing universe.

Also wanted to add that there is no way of screening gender in this game. Some people have multiple accounts or more than one person playing on an account. So if my BF wants to roll up a defender on the female server...there you go...you got a man in that terf

But would a female server solve the problem? I'm guessing the the server would only be for people who are female in real life and not the gender of your toons. Just because the server is populated only with women, would that eliminate all harassment? What, women can't harass others?

Also, I wonder how an all women server would be enforced. Can the game look at the gender of the persons profile and lock them out? How soon before guys start new accounts and claim to be female just so they can get access to the female only server?

I think it is better to use the social management tools that the game has already.

If you get harassed about your gender, petition and gignore. It is as simple as that

/end thread hard

I think the things that strike me most about the information provided by the OP are the following:

1) The OP wants NCsoft to shell out for a female only server.
2) The OP has stated that the only reason she got picked out as a female is because she chose (and was not by any means required) to enter a Teamspeak server (which is not a part of game functionality, and therefore has nothing to do with NCsoft).

Simply put, the harassment that the OP received has nothing to do with NCsoft (nor anything to do with anything that NCsoft control), so is not NCsoft's problem to solve.

This is not to suggest that such behaviour should be tolerated, but I believe that the finger should be pointed at the Teamspeak server's owner, not NCsoft, as the person to solve the issue.

Having said that, if it was in-game harassment (which this is not), then /ignore and /petition are the way to solve it.

As a fellow man that plays female characters, I totally vote for a female only server so I can take notes on female behavior for the little bit of outside life I have.