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I tried to apologize for my behavior on a few of the threads, seems the apology was not accepted. Apparently my behavior has left much to be desired and no one wishes to give me another chance. That is fine. I will no longer be active on the forums except for maybe the Art section as I have a thread there for doing free commissions.

I apologize for my behavior, once more. To insure that I will no longer be rude to anyone else and to insure that I don't do anything else considered stupid or anal, that is why I am leaving the forums. Thank you for what kindness you have shown me and for putting up with my apparent anality. I'll return to the other sections of the forums once I see an improvement in my own behavior.


 

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You're going to need a thicker skin on the internet that that.


total kick to the gut

This is like having Ra's Al Ghul show up at your birthday party.

 

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I agree.

You have had positive comments and negative comments in the threads that I have seen you create or post in. You have to take the good with the bad. Not everyone is going to agree with you. How boring would that be?


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I'm not leaving because I was bullied. I'm leaving because I was the one doing the bullying.


 

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Wut.


 

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I'm not leaving because I was bullied. I'm leaving because I was the one doing the bullying.
Possibly my skin is *too* thick, but i didn't notice you being a bully.
OTOH i haven't read every thread you've posted in. Maybe you were a horrible bully and i missed it, but that would be inconsistent with your posts that i have read.

Edit: Without moderator powers or stalking it's sort of difficult to bully in online forums. Bless their little hearts, a few of the regulars in the PvP sections make an effort at it, but even those are generally fail.


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I'm generally a nice guy but recently it seems I have been rude to several people, the one I should apologize to the most is Memphis, who tried to help me out and I wound up tossing it in his face. I've come from a community where almost every was rude and anal, I left that gaming community because I felt I was too nice to be among them. I came here and was glad that there were nice people. However it seems the rudeness and anality of the previous community had rubbed off on me.


 

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You've certainly had a busy month. Just take it easy for a little while and think before you post.
I've got myself in trouble too from other forumites because I posted too quickly.


 

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Don't leave. You seem to be a generally nice person. None of your post that i've seen were rude.

Edit: Also, you've already apologized, you can't do any more, if anything, they're rude for not accepting it.


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Lone Hero...you admitted to yourself you have a problem. Now that you know you might have a streak of the bully in you, and are remorseful about it, I am 98 percent positive you won't do it again without a really, really, good reason.

So, grab a glass of tea, take off your shoes, and relax

And remember, every forum needs a few colorful, characters to keep the readership up

Lisa.


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Still, what I did went so far in the opposite direction of my normal personality it isn't funny. At the moment I feel that I don't deserve to be on these forums.


 

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At least you are not one of the many invisible posters. And even more importantly, you are not a thread killer.

Oops. This thread is doomed to drop instantly to page 5 now. Sorry.


 

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Originally Posted by The Lone Hero View Post
I'm generally a nice guy but recently it seems I have been rude to several people, the one I should apologize to the most is Memphis, who tried to help me out and I wound up tossing it in his face. I've come from a community where almost every was rude and anal, I left that gaming community because I felt I was too nice to be among them. I came here and was glad that there were nice people. However it seems the rudeness and anality of the previous community had rubbed off on me.
Simple thing for me to say: Don't quit the forums over this. If you really feel bad about how you've treated someone on these forums, man up and admit it (you've done that) and send them a PM telling them you're sorry.

There's no need to explain reasons that you feel you were rude, or dredge up past history. If you think someone deserves an apology, give it to them, make it honest, and leave the ball in their court. Only a complete moron would refuse an honest apology.

Then, having done that... take a step back for a day or two. Keep playing the game. Post in the fun threads, if they take your fancy.

You're new here, and this community has a LOT of tolerance for newbie mistakes. The REAL mistake is not learning from them, and being a n00b.


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Wut?

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Wut.
Oh, sorry, someone already asked.


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Meh, Lone Hero, you seem like a confused person who needs a little focus. Yeah, you got belligerant and bullied a bit. It happens. You've apologized, accepted you have issues, and would like to be better.

Well now, if you just run away from the issues, you're not going to learn how to properly deal with the situations. I advise that you lurk, read, reread, and think about stuff before you post. If you pay a little attention to the details of what your saying, you'll see an improvement.

I wish you luck.



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At least you are not one of the many invisible posters. And even more importantly, you are not a thread killer.

Oops. This thread is doomed to drop instantly to page 5 now. Sorry.
Yes, yes it will.


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You're going to need a thicker skin on the internet that that.
yah.

maybe stick to bingo night at the senior center?


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Originally Posted by The Lone Hero View Post
[...] anality of the previous community had rubbed off on me.
*ponders between giggling and being disgusted*

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*giggles like a pre teen*


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Nah, your not bad. Trust me on that one. You know your bad when myself and others tell you to stick it where the sun doesn't shine
Just take it slow and, if you think it might come out wrong, just don't reply to whatever it was. I tend to read over what I write, and sometimes I just delete the post while thinking 'Meh, not worth it'

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The interwebs can be a vicious mistress, perhaps parental consent should be required in some cases.
Don't give up on social networking lad, it's unlikely to ever pay off, but it's what everyone's doing.






 

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Don't give up on social networking lad, it's unlikely to ever pay off, but it's what everyone's doing.
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I could bully you a little, if you want.




Thank you, Champion.

 

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(And for the record, I like the Rider 00 Who's to say kids in the Paragon Universe don't get inspired by stuff? )
Poor Rider 00's been neglected lately. I've been favoring Adrian Smith, my new, currently lv. 22, Arachnos Soldier.


 

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*ponders between giggling and being disgusted*

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*giggles like a pre teen*
Revel in both?



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Everyone hates me. Don't see me leaving...

Also... CHEESEBURGERS!!!


 

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Originally Posted by The Lone Hero View Post
I'm generally a nice guy but recently it seems I have been rude to several people, the one I should apologize to the most is Memphis, who tried to help me out and I wound up tossing it in his face. I've come from a community where almost every was rude and anal, I left that gaming community because I felt I was too nice to be among them. I came here and was glad that there were nice people. However it seems the rudeness and anality of the previous community had rubbed off on me.
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... If you think someone deserves an apology, give it to them, make it honest, and leave the ball in their court. Only a complete moron would refuse an honest apology....
Lone Hero DID apologize, publicly and very graciously, and Bill snarked at him anyway. So, feel free to call Bill a complete moron.


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