Sexism and Comic Books


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...Superman or Batman bent over, presenting his rear to the reader while coyly looking back over his shoulder at them.
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But you will see superheroines in that position because the artist copied the pose from whatever magazine he was using as a reference.
Which brings up the question of audience. If superhero comics were strictly aimed at children the sexy stuff would be toned down immediately (And the violence a little less so. Although why we are more uptight about sex than violence is a mystery to me.) but, since the 80s, that has become less and less the case.

Which makes me hopeful that things will change. As the audience diversifies and as more creators in the industry are women, the depictions of women will improve.


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I'm going to stick to comic imagery rather than delve into old storylines and silver age bat/writer/superdickery.

Why does the idealised female figure regularly used in comics (and likely originating as far back as ancient Greece and classical sculpture) get called sexist? Comic book characters being generally stylised and usually "larger than life", is such a portrayal of a female figure wrong? Is it not more a matter of the interpretation rather than the image itself that is "sexist" or applies such a label?
I've seen arguments in previous threads that the female character model in this game is "sexist" because it is not realistic. Is that a fair accusation? Is it obliged to be realistic simply so avoid offending real women who do not look like that? If so is the post-processing of female models in fashion magazines and the like sexist for protraying the unachievable?

Is "Sexist" being misapplied due to false expectation such as, "I can never look like that, it is therefore over-idealised and must be sexist"?

Personally I can't help thinking that in many cases of claimed sexism in comic book protrayal of the female form it is being misapplied, often due to the claimant's own insecurity or in an attempt to garner some measure of exposure and notoriety.
Angelina Jolie is obviously sexist because...well look at her. How could she not be sexist against women? Would a woman who isn't sexist against women ever look like that? You think Rossane Barr or Rosie O'Donnel would ever be caught looking like that? Hell no, they aren't sexist against women...just look at them.


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Because the models in porn mags aren't exactly in what you'd call action poses. Well, I suppose you would call them action poses but not the kind of action you would expect to see in an average, family friendly comic book. For example, it's not often that you see Superman or Batman bent over, presenting his rear to the reader while coyly looking back over his shoulder at them. But you will see superheroines in that position because the artist copied the pose from whatever magazine he was using as a reference.
Isn't that more a matter of poor choice of pose from the reference material than sexism?

I'm not trying to be deliberately obtuse, I just find it easier to understand by asking questions.
Ironically it can be argued that some of the models are closer to the classical female figure ideal. Ofcourse in that case the ideal is diverted for a less wholesome purpose. However the same could be said for ideal male figure in Playgirl centerfold.



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or if the artist uses porn magazines as references for when he's drawing women.
I find it amusing to realize that if Rob Liefeld were to do this, his characters might look more realistic.


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As with any entertainment/art medium there will always be a spectrum of reactions to comic books that'll range from "I see nothing wrong with it" all the way to "I consider it too extreme/perverse for anyone else to see it." Clearly there are some titles, storylines and/or artwork that are more questionable than others. And obviously as public opinion evolves over the years what will be considered "generally" acceptable will change.

Having said all that I would hesitate to make an absolute statement like "comic books are sexist". Are some titles more sexist and/or problematic than others? Sure some are worse than others. But can you say that about all of them? Not really. You have to accept that a label like "sexist" is one of those loaded, subjective terms that means something slightly different to almost everyone. *shrugs*

As with many forms of entertainment comic books often show us idealized images of the male and female forms. That kind of thing is hardly a new idea - the Greek Olympians were often described as models of physical human perfection. Ultimately what any one person considers to be "too much" is going to boil down to personal subjective preferences.

I think the key is to make up your own mind about things like this without being prejudiced or using vague unqualified labels.


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Most writers are male, so they write more male oriented stories. Gail Simone writes more female oriented stories because she is a woman. Her another example: Even though he claims to be a feminist, Joss Whedon best written series have been Firefly and Angel, because it is more masculine and it is in his nature to grasp the material better. Other more female "oriented" still faces the same pit falls other non-feminist writers commit. Though he seems to write strong characters, most of Eliza Dushku's "acting" his her running around wet and screaming.


 

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Isn't that more a matter of poor choice of pose from the reference material than sexism?

I'm not trying to be deliberately obtuse, I just find it easier to understand by asking questions.
Ironically it can be argued that some of the models are closer to the classical female figure ideal. Ofcourse in that case the ideal is diverted for a less wholesome purpose. However the same could be said for ideal male figure in Playgirl centerfold.



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Most writers are male, so they write more male oriented stories. Gail Simone writes more female oriented stories because she is a woman. Her another example: Even though he claims to be a feminist, Joss Whedon best written series have been Firefly and Angel, because it is more masculine and it is in his nature to grasp the material better. Other more female "oriented" still faces the same pit falls other non-feminist writers commit. Though he seems to write strong characters, most of Eliza Dushku's "acting" his her running around wet and screaming.
You seem to be trying to claim males can't write decent stories that would either appeal to women or have well-written female lead characters. You're making a sweeping generalization and trying to imply it's a factual certainty.

Obviously a male writer (like Joss Whedon for instance) has more personal life experience empathy with the male characters he writes about. But that doesn't automatically mean that he as a male can't write stories about/for women as well (or even better) than any given female writer could.

To suggest an author can only produce their best work when writing about characters of his/her own sex is actually another form of sexism. Good going there.


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Isn't that more a matter of poor choice of pose from the reference material than sexism?

I'm not trying to be deliberately obtuse, I just find it easier to understand by asking questions.
Ironically it can be argued that some of the models are closer to the classical female figure ideal. Ofcourse in that case the ideal is diverted for a less wholesome purpose. However the same could be said for ideal male figure in Playgirl centerfold.
If you use porn magazines for your reference material, you wind up with porn poses. That's what makes it easy to spot that particular type of artist. And it's not like there aren't plenty of reference books available for artists interested in drawing the human figure without it looking like they were giving the model a gynecological exam.


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Though he seems to write strong characters, most of Eliza Dushku's "acting" his her running around wet and screaming.
That's just playing to Dushku's strengths. It's not like she's a great actress.


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... most of Eliza Dushku's "acting" his her running around wet ...
And this is bad HOW?


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I'd be more inclined to believe there was sexism in comics, if the subject of said story was a bon-bon eating, never got off their butt, lay about, but somehow still managed to look like a super model.

This goes for the men or women.

In superhero comics however, the main characters are VERY active individuals, who when they aren't out running across the rooftops, maintain an extensive physical workout routine.

One then might say "then the woman should look like body builders". Not at all. First off, not everyone even has the capability to have that type of build, no matter how hard they work out (barring steroid use), and this includes the men. Second off, even if they could, they'd have to do the right excersizes for that psysique.

Any "comicbooks are sexist" comments that come based off the look of the heroes I find to be the least thought out. It's a visual medium, and as Tony Daniel (my personal favorite comic artist) commented when asked why does he draw everyone looking good (paraphrasing here) "Drawing ugly is harder to do"

If those who complained about the looks of comic book characters worked out as much as it's implied that superheroes do, they'd find themselves with figures closer to those in comic books (for men it may be closer to Spider-Man vs Superman, but that's still a great figure )

As for the story elements. Hmmm...maybe. But I'm a little less convinced. As the one female writer mentioned in her responce to a blog inwhich she was mentioned. I think it depends on the writer and what they're going for.

Lastly, if they truely felt this way, there's one true way to stop it all from happening. Don't buy the book!

It reminds me of the Howard Stern movie. If people wanted him off the air so bad, their best bet would of been to just shut him off, so they didn't count in the ratings.

Of course, if they didn't buy them to find these things they considered sexist, they'd have nothing to complain about.


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I don't know if it's sexism, but one character who annoys me greatly is Emma Frost. There's something very Pamela Anderson about her that makes me just twitch. It seems she can only do her scheming while spilling from a white leather cup suit.

But I'm also annoyed by Edward Cullen, the 100 year old vampire madly in love with a teenager. That's a character from "girl's literature." I don't think of it as sexism so much as a characterization that's not meant for me.

So the question is, are (straight) men allowed to have their own literature? Or is the issue that what is essentially literature for straight males is promoted by culture as having mass appeal that it actually lacks? Loaded questions for sure. I was gay, read these comics, eventually stopped reading them, but not because I felt unwelcome.

Comparing it to something like the WWF professional wrestling, it just was what it was. Perhaps the only semi-insulting thing about it--and this isn't a comics thing exclusively--is that these books frequently preach about diversity and overcoming personal trauma, while presenting heroes who dodge the social categories that would put them in that exact situation.


 

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I don't know if it's sexism, but one character who annoys me greatly is Emma Frost. There's something very Pamela Anderson about her that makes me just twitch. It seems she can only do her scheming while spilling from a white leather cup suit.
I agree that even in a sexist art form, she's completely over the top. However, I suppose one might argue that she's often portrayed as using sex as a weapon because she knows exactly what dressing like that will do to others. It means men will be at the least distracted and at the most underestimate her.

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But I'm also annoyed by Edward Cullen, the 100 year old vampire madly in love with a teenager. That's a character from "girl's literature." I don't think of it as sexism so much as a characterization that's not meant for me.
One review of Twilight mentioned that the author goes into exacting detail with OCD-like minutia about Edward and the other men, but does not once describe the heroine. It's a brilliant idea because it allows women to fantasize that *they* are the ones Edward's in love with. Whether she did that intentionally or accidentally is a moot point, for it allowed her books to become the phenomena that they are.

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So the question is, are (straight) men allowed to have their own literature? Or is the issue that what is essentially literature for straight males is promoted by culture as having mass appeal that it actually lacks? Loaded questions for sure. I was gay, read these comics, eventually stopped reading them, but not because I felt unwelcome.
That last sentence confuses me. You are gay? You were?

Anyway, I think the thriller genre in both literature and comics is for adult males. The comic 100 bullets is very adult, not in the porn industry sense, but in dealing with grow-up issues and complex storytelling. It stands it stark contrast to a lot of the immature big boobs and partially-clad tights of some mainstream superhero comics.

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Comparing it to something like the WWF professional wrestling, it just was what it was. Perhaps the only semi-insulting thing about it--and this isn't a comics thing exclusively--is that these books frequently preach about diversity and overcoming personal trauma, while presenting heroes who dodge the social categories that would put them in that exact situation.
I think there are plenty of writers out there who aren't hypocrites in this sense. Bendis certainly isn't in his mainstream comics, and I get the feeling that since Kirkman's Invincible is playing with the stereotypes of comics, the designs of those characters reflect that. Ellis also seems interested in subverting that sexism vibe in the things he's created, notably The Authority where no one is overtly sexualized and he even has two openly gay characters.


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I think there are plenty of writers out there who aren't hypocrites in this sense. Bendis certainly isn't in his mainstream comics, and I get the feeling that since Kirkman's Invincible is playing with the stereotypes of comics, the designs of those characters reflect that. Ellis also seems interested in subverting that sexism vibe in the things he's created, notably The Authority where no one is overtly sexualized and he even has two openly gay characters.

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Comparing it to something like the WWF professional wrestling, it just was what it was. Perhaps the only semi-insulting thing about it--and this isn't a comics thing exclusively--is that these books frequently preach about diversity and overcoming personal trauma, while presenting heroes who dodge the social categories that would put them in that exact situation.
Oh, you mean like illegal imigant (Superman & Supergirl), Atheist (Batman & Lex Luthor), LGBT (Batwoman & The Question), Racism (Static Shock & Beast Boy), Muslim (Night Runner & The 99)...

I could keep going.

Or are you talking about being orphaned, having their planet...universe destroyed, social problems, handicapped,child abuse, or drugs?

These also are all talked dealt with by quite a number of characters. I could come up with several for each of those off the top of my head.


 

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I don't know if it's sexism, but one character who annoys me greatly is Emma Frost. There's something very Pamela Anderson about her that makes me just twitch. It seems she can only do her scheming while spilling from a white leather cup suit.
I don't know, being powerful, intelligent, and successful. Isn't writing her as all that, the opposite of sexist?

I'd say she wears what she can, because she can. She's not a shy, easily embarrassed teenage girl. She's a proud, take charge woman.

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But I'm also annoyed by Edward Cullen, the 100 year old vampire madly in love with a teenager. That's a character from "girl's literature." I don't think of it as sexism so much as a characterization that's not meant for me.
Twilight just isn't for everyone. But what some Feminist forget, is feminism isn't about woman being men. It's about women being treated as equals, and this means deciding for themself what they want. Sadly, that tends to go the way of "You have to be stuffy and take charge" instead of "It's your choice to strive to be the best stay at home mom/spouse or strive to be the the leader of corporate industry or strive to be whatever the hell you want to be."

And yes, you weren't the target audience of the series.

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So the question is, are (straight) men allowed to have their own literature? Or is the issue that what is essentially literature for straight males is promoted by culture as having mass appeal that it actually lacks? Loaded questions for sure. I was gay, read these comics, eventually stopped reading them, but not because I felt unwelcome.

Comparing it to something like the WWF professional wrestling, it just was what it was. Perhaps the only semi-insulting thing about it--and this isn't a comics thing exclusively--is that these books frequently preach about diversity and overcoming personal trauma, while presenting heroes who dodge the social categories that would put them in that exact situation.
Yes they are. But society is currently in the trend of telling people what they can and cannot enjoy.


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Here's a question

How many stay at home dads are there in fiction? Outside of the few TV series that has that happening as its premise there is pretty much only 2 questionable ones that i know of off the top of my head, Robin Williams in Mrs. Doubtfire and Micheal Keaton is Multiplicity.

How bout an easier one. How many single men that can be considered respectable and aren't employed are there in fiction? I can't think of any.

This is pretty much stating if your a man and don't have a job you are worthless.

And we're not even talking about the music industry with such stars as Beyonce Knowles singing sexist crap all day every day, but gets no flack for it ever.

Why are these things never brought up?

Why is it sexist for comics to have women with large breasts when we know that those figures are impossible, but it's not sexist to never show a male in a good light if they don't have a job?

There is a massive double standard that is sexist, but it is more on the male side than it is on the female side. The female side is more apparent, yes, but i would say the male side is far more insidious, wide ranged, and ingrained to our culture to such an extent that we don't even view it as wrong. And there is one insanely disturbing example of this which I'm not going to state, but it's there and every western male has to deal with it in some fashion.


 

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There is a massive double standard that is sexist, but it is more on the male side than it is on the female side. The female side is more apparent, yes, but i would say the male side is far more insidious, wide ranged, and ingrained to our culture to such an extent that we don't even view it as wrong. And there is one insanely disturbing example of this which I'm not going to state, but it's there and every western male has to deal with it in some fashion.
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This is always an interesting topic when it comes up, in terms of how people pick angles to attack it. For me, I think its obvious that there is lots of overt sexism in comic books, as there is in most pop culture. But who exactly is to blame for that, or rather what the solution to that is, always seems to be more complicated than it first seems on the surface. Yes: women are much more sexualized in their dress and appearance than men in comic books. That's a statistical fact. But then I go to the mall and I find that if anything, the under-20 crowd demonstrates an even *stronger* skew towards sexualized dress between males and females, and I'm fairly certain it wasn't male comic book authors that picked those outfits out for all of those girls. A lot of this is not sexual oppression, but actually sexual norms that are accepted on both sides. And that means while we can see trends, its not so easy to see cause and effect directly.


One more thing. The question of "what changed" between the old days and now came up. I think what actually changed wasn't women themselves, but what society was telling the next generation of girls. In the past, society was telling girls to fit in, to be productive members of society, to obey convention. Under those circumstances, ironically female characters that were professionals or other integral members of the workforce actually fit in with the role of females projected by the culture. There could still be an undercurrent of sexism in terms of the limits of competency of women, but they were expected to be competent, if only to be useful.

Today, and for a long time now, the popular culture message to young girls is: be attractive, be sexual, be daring, be enticing. The female character that has to constantly be rescued is not, I believe, intended to portray women as incompetent. Its actually to portray them as something men want to protect: it portrays women as something attractive to men in a fundamental way. And I think in a way, the subject of women being portrayed as "weak" or "strong" sometimes misses the larger point: that often women are portrayed as objects of attention for men to a much greater degree than the reverse.

That's not always true, and its not always overt, but I think if there is a deep undercurrent of sexism in comic books, its there, not in whether the women portrayed are "strong" or not. And that's not something you just "fix" because its a subtle but fundamental part of the culture that isn't just about sexist male authors, but is about all authors and all readers, even many of the ones that otherwise object to overt sexism in the material.


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Yes, sexism prescribes and proscribes for men as well as women. A Proper Man should be athletic, courageous, stoic, and confident. He should dress in man-appropriate clothing only. He should work hard in his chosen field, attract a wife, and support a family. He should be ready and willing to respond to threats and insults to himself or his family with violence, on both a personal (fights) and societal (war) level. All of these are unfair expectations to level against men, and violating those expectations leads to anything from lesser respect to physical attack. Sexism hurts everybody.

However, the expectations placed on women are just as bad at the very least. Think very carefully before you label a set of expectations that drives one gender to be more confident, aggressive, and successful as worse for that gender.

As for comics: I suggest reading Empowered. There, at least, the blatant sexualization is both explicitly acknowledged and applied evenhandedly to men and women.

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Yes, sexism prescribes and proscribes for men as well as women. A Proper Man should be athletic, courageous, stoic, and confident. He should dress in man-appropriate clothing only. He should work hard in his chosen field, attract a wife, and support a family. He should be ready and willing to respond to threats and insults to himself or his family with violence, on both a personal (fights) and societal (war) level. All of these are unfair expectations to level against men, and violating those expectations leads to anything from lesser respect to physical attack. Sexism hurts everybody.
Keep in mind... I'm not saying sexism isn't bad I'm just saying that it's worse for men than women for a very simple reason.

Men are usually not being sexist against women and any that are are often put down immediately. Women are generally the ones who push sexist ideas on other women.

On the other hand Women and Men often are sexist against men and when this happens not only is it ignored, a lot of times it is supported and cheered on by others. And then further both men and women generally push sexist ideas on men.

It's a matter of how much pushing is happening and the understanding they can get from others that makes sexism against men so much worse in my opinion.

Seriously, how many times have you seen a women go nuts and beat the crap out of a guy and they get cheered on? While a guy who simply stops a woman from hitting him is often looked at as some evil person?

What makes it worse still is that the guy that gets beat the crap out of and the one who stops the woman...both are looked at as less than manly. So in the end the male, in general society, is devalued and the female always gets an increase in value.

This doesn't happen in every case, but it happens a lot.... and happily it is decreasing, but that doesn't mean it still isn't there.

What makes this whole thing worse is that this whole double standard allows a lot of abuse to go unpunished because boys/men should stand up for themselves and can't get sexually abused and if they do they are looked down on for letting it happen so a lot of it goes unreported and when it is reported it is almost never looked into as much as if it were a woman reporting these thing or they are simply over looked even when they are being considered a victim.... as I pointed out, even if you had a list of the top 10 most victimized people in the world and a majority of them were men and the lowest positions on the list were 2 women... then the women would be the cover and the men would be largely forgotten.

This makes it all so much more insidious and why I say sexism against men is worse... but in the end both are bad and should be fixed...


 

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Keep in mind... I'm not saying sexism isn't bad I'm just saying that it's worse for men than women for a very simple reason.

Men are usually not being sexist against women and any that are are often put down immediately. Women are generally the ones who push sexist ideas on other women.

On the other hand Women and Men often are sexist against men and when this happens not only is it ignored, a lot of times it is supported and cheered on by others. And then further both men and women generally push sexist ideas on men.

It's a matter of how much pushing is happening and the understanding they can get from others that makes sexism against men so much worse in my opinion.

Seriously, how many times have you seen a women go nuts and beat the crap out of a guy and they get cheered on? While a guy who simply stops a woman from hitting him is often looked at as some evil person?

What makes it worse still is that the guy that gets beat the crap out of and the one who stops the woman...both are looked at as less than manly. So in the end the male, in general society, is devalued and the female always gets an increase in value.

This doesn't happen in every case, but it happens a lot.... and happily it is decreasing, but that doesn't mean it still isn't there.

What makes this whole thing worse is that this whole double standard allows a lot of abuse to go unpunished because boys/men should stand up for themselves and can't get sexually abused and if they do they are looked down on for letting it happen so a lot of it goes unreported and when it is reported it is almost never looked into as much as if it were a woman reporting these thing or they are simply over looked even when they are being considered a victim.... as I pointed out, even if you had a list of the top 10 most victimized people in the world and a majority of them were men and the lowest positions on the list were 2 women... then the women would be the cover and the men would be largely forgotten.

This makes it all so much more insidious and why I say sexism against men is worse... but in the end both are bad and should be fixed...
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Durakken, you're wrong.

Sexism is heavily entrenched in western culture. What you describe is male gender expectations, which are a part of it, but it's not used to discriminate against men. It's used to discriminate against women and men who do not fulfill those gender expectations

Sexism against men is only used for those who choose not to meet the male ideal. Those who do? They basically get a free pass to discriminate against men who show anything determined to be 'feminine' traits. They get to discriminate against women who do not fulfill their vision of 'feminine' traits. Often, this male privilege is used to deny women bodily autonomy - your view that **** only occurs in dark alleys at knifepoint, which is the case only in a tiny fraction of such assaults. Most are committed by someone the victim knows. And that's not even touching on any other hot-button political issues.

What you are describing is male privilege, the ability for those who conform to societal norms to attack those who do not without fear of repercussion.

Your anecdotes fail - your hypothetical list does not exist. You're making that up and trying to use it as a valid argument. Likewise, data on domestic abuse (an extremely underreported crime) does not support your contentions.

What you are doing is attempting to use your male privilege to minimize the impact on those who do not benefit from it. It's wrong, and you should stop.

Sexism against men is *not* worse. No one advocates that men should not have total control of their own bodies. The glass ceiling simply does not exist for men. No one argues that men should not serve in combat. If there's a question of whether women should be allowed to do something, ask yourself why there isn't a question about men doing it.

So, Durakken, you are completely wrong. There is no "Why will no one think of the poor men?" It doesn't work that way in our society.

And don't try to refute me with anecdotes... there are as many anecdotes as there are people. Use data and facts, or don't respond at all.


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Sexism against men is only used for those who choose not to meet the male ideal. Those who do? They basically get a free pass to discriminate against men who show anything determined to be 'feminine' traits. They get to discriminate against women who do not fulfill their vision of 'feminine' traits.
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Durakken, you're wrong.

Sexism is heavily entrenched in western culture. What you describe is male gender expectations, which are a part of it, but it's not used to discriminate against men. It's used to discriminate against women and men who do not fulfill those gender expectations

Sexism against men is only used for those who choose not to meet the male ideal. Those who do? They basically get a free pass to discriminate against men who show anything determined to be 'feminine' traits. They get to discriminate against women who do not fulfill their vision of 'feminine' traits. Often, this male privilege is used to deny women bodily autonomy - your view that **** only occurs in dark alleys at knifepoint, which is the case only in a tiny fraction of such assaults. Most are committed by someone the victim knows. And that's not even touching on any other hot-button political issues.

What you are describing is male privilege, the ability for those who conform to societal norms to attack those who do not without fear of repercussion.

Your anecdotes fail - your hypothetical list does not exist. You're making that up and trying to use it as a valid argument. Likewise, data on domestic abuse (an extremely underreported crime) does not support your contentions.

What you are doing is attempting to use your male privilege to minimize the impact on those who do not benefit from it. It's wrong, and you should stop.

Sexism against men is *not* worse. No one advocates that men should not have total control of their own bodies. The glass ceiling simply does not exist for men. No one argues that men should not serve in combat. If there's a question of whether women should be allowed to do something, ask yourself why there isn't a question about men doing it.

So, Durakken, you are completely wrong. There is no "Why will no one think of the poor men?" It doesn't work that way in our society.

And don't try to refute me with anecdotes... there are as many anecdotes as there are people. Use data and facts, or don't respond at all.
Smersh,

#1. The list i mentioned does exist in some form and it's in a prominent magazine that I can't remember where came from.

#2. Things being ingrained into culture does not make something right or not sexist. It just means you don't recognize it as wrong and for some reason can't see the double standard.

#3. I don't take being told to go try to kill people i don't know for a reason I don't support while getting shot at as a privilege. In fact its' not and has never been seen as such until recently because of the idiotic discrimination due to other topics we can't talk about. Until very recently it was seen as a duty, as a form of taxes. Stop glorifying war, which is what saying its a privilege does.

#4. If you don't see "male privilege" as sexism, that to me is disturbing...