Talk About Inpolite...
For me, personally, I find it annoying, yes. I don't know you, so no, I'm not interested in joining your SG. That said, I'll typically just say "no thanks."
As for your tactics and reply above? You don't have to "know them personally," but there are better ways to recruit that will get you better people and a longer lasting SG. For instance, run some missions with them. See if they get along with your or not, then ask if they want to join the supergroup. That way, *they* should have an idea that it's not just some prestige farm they'll get kicked out of, and you'll know you're not getting someone you'll end up kicking a day later because they're getting on everyone else's nerves (or coming in to find they've cleared out your enhancements/salvage and sold it on the market.) Alternately - even though it *can* be annoying, an occasional broadcast telling what your SG is, what they're interested in and that they're recruiting isn't that bad - I prefer it over getting blind SG invites, though I don't tend to reply to them. And there's always the server boards down below. Mention you're starting an SG, what it's about, etc. and see who bites. |
Mmhm. And it's not an extreme thing to do. In fact, it may be the NICEST thing to do for everyone involved. I'm looking for quality, and Hot Head Mike's looking for quantity. And that's fine. Mike and I don't have anything to offer each other, and we'll never have to have an uncomfortable conversation about it.
So if Hot Head Mike is on Virtue, I imagine he's on my ignore list. But not because I have any kind of opinion about him. Certain MMORPG realities were not new to me, long even before I came here a year and a half ago. None of this ever chaps my hide anymore. My ignore filter takes care of everything. It's a knee jerk reaction. |
Since I'm on Liberty I will never run the treacherous "Hey Need a SG?" into you. So that's a good thing in my opinion so I don't end up assaulting your mental state by those 'extremely annoying words'
I am how ever glad that you restrain yourself from acting like a jerk to SG recruiters.
I wouldn't be too concerned. I've seen similar attitudes expressed by other players over the years and they either learn to change the way they express themselves in the game or they end up like the occasional poster that claims "The servers are dead!" because their attitude has alienated them from everyone on whatever low pop server they make their home. They can't seem to understand just how close knit the player communities are especially on the low pop servers.
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Did these 'victims' of mine have to endure a live conversation with someone they don't like? No all you must do is glance and think to yourself for a second. And if you do not want in just let the message stay as is. |
"If you don't want my product just hang up."
"If you don't like my email just delete it."
You sir are a spammer. I have no pity for you, and find it amusing you got your feelings hurt enough to start a thread about it.
Look at this conversation:
[Tell] -->: Need a SG? [Tell] : isn't there an SG tag under my name? [Tell] -->: I sent u a message b4 i got here [Tell] : wow, that was an useless act. [Tell] -->: Don't have to be a d!ck I send messages to lvls 1-10 about the SG [Tell] : LOL, spamming for a SG members...Sorry, bub, I guess some have to do what the have to do. [Tell] -->: Spamming? Sending messages is 'spamming' most people i see like being asked b4 they get invited [Tell] : sure, there a lots of 14y/o tha daddy is paying their account that would love the invite [Tell] : ok, ok, I'll leave it be. good luck, bub [Tell] -->: **** off bro [Tell] : boy, if you had taken a few minutes to see if I had an SG before spamming you would be all upset now, would you?buggar off, bub [Tell] -->: And were back to spamming, Let me ask you did i send you like 10 messages to join my SG? NO. I sent you one. That is not spamming - that is a general question I admit I got a bit out of hand with my responses but I just hate sarcastic jerks Oh and also, who here calls asking someone to join your SG threw a tell 'Spamming'? |
When I get these emails or ingame invites my stock answer is "In one already thanks" then ignore any thing else that comes up on the subject
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hey mike, you do know that you can respond to everyone i a giant post instead of doing it how you are doing which is in violation of the forum rules?
aside from that, it was rude of you to continue on a conversation when the person did not want to join your sg. and it is not acceptible to just hit anyone who is lv 1-10 with a tell just asking if they want to join an sg. i know an vg that did this and i think they have been put on everyones ignore list. it probably didn't help that they did it to the same people up to 3 times a day, but i think you should be able to get the point.
Man I just can't pinpoint a definition of SPAM, maybe I need to look harder
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Bah I read to the third page and Sharker already beat me to the punch by 6 minutes!
hey mike, you do know that you can respond to everyone i a giant post instead of doing it how you are doing which is in violation of the forum rules?
aside from that, it was rude of you to continue on a conversation when the person did not want to join your sg. and it is not acceptible to just hit anyone who is lv 1-10 with a tell just asking if they want to join an sg. i know an vg that did this and i think they have been put on everyones ignore list. it probably didn't help that they did it to the same people up to 3 times a day, but i think you should be able to get the point. |
Anyways previously said I send one tell. One tell only. If that offends you think of it as a personal broadcast which is not real long and drawn out.
To the following:
Chaos Creator: Yeah you got beat to the punch no longer will I multi-post
LISAR: I don't want pity nor do I want your opinion at all really. You see our part of the conversation is just incoherent garbage, back and forth 'It is spam' 'It isn't'
Leif_Roar: Ok so "Need a SG?" makes you want to blacklist? THEN GO RIGHT AHEAD AND DO IT
See the little button with a " beside the quote button? click that for each post you want to quote then on the final one when you're ready to reply hit either [New Reply] or [Quote]
This will start the post with a quote of each post you've selected.
In my line of thought a broadcast is more intrusive then a tell. Think about it. Everyone is seeing the broadcast. The broadcast is longer which then takes up more of your chat bubble, and I assume that pisses people off. So really I see your moderate spam to be much more intrusive then my classic 3 word tells.
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[QUOTE=Chaos Creator;3337409]See the little button with a " beside the quote button? click that for each post you want to quote then on the final one when you're ready to reply hit either [New Reply] or
This will start the post with a quote of each post you've selected. |
That said you should have stopped responding and added him to ignore once it was apparent he was going to be rude.