Good character names are running out, huh?
It's usefulness is suspect, in any case, as it largely depends upon ignorance of a precedent. Which is to say that people tend to think something is original because they either have not seen its like before themselves, or else don't recognize the resemblances. How much worth can it have as a descriptor, therefore, since it so heavily relies on subjective knowledge? If someone ignorant of cheeseburgers were to stumble upon the idea of placing a fried piece of ground meat and cheese between two handy pieces of bread they might call it "original" whereas "I never thought of that" or "new to me" would be more apt.
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There's a part to this argument that - and please don't hold it against me for saying this - really irritates me. It's the notion that any statement made without a variant of "in my opinion" or "to the best of my knowledge" appended is invariably an absolute. And it's not. It's not what most people mean when they say, and it's ugly to append an endlessly looping descriptor to the end of which statement, to boot. In fact, one should assume that a statement even stated in absolutes is, ultimately, still a subjective evaluation and best guess approximation.
And that's actually ignoring the meaning of the term "original." This is not a value judgement, it is merely a term to describe the first of a kind and origin of a concept. Given that precedent for original items goes both ways and depicts both terrible examples where time improved it greatly, as well as masterpieces which were never replicated, I don't think you really should be inferring moral judgement into something being "original." Yes, "some people" will try to use it as a value judgement, but that argument can extend to infinity, because there is absolutely nothing that "some people" won't do.
As with most uses of language, one should never bog down into fine semantics at the cost of ignoring context, because it's never a question of what we SAY, it's a question of what we MEAN.
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Heh, this takes me back to the first year in college. We thought we knew so much!
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And again, this is far too absolutist a stance to take. If your position is that the term "original" is suspect because it relies so much on subjectivism, then that instantly nullifies the merit to having such words as "like" and "fun" which, by their very nature, defy any objective definitions.
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There's a part to this argument that - and please don't hold it against me for saying this - really irritates me. It's the notion that any statement made without a variant of "in my opinion" or "to the best of my knowledge" appended is invariably an absolute. |
As with most uses of language, one should never bog down into fine semantics at the cost of ignoring context, because it's never a question of what we SAY, it's a question of what we MEAN. |
Goodbye may seem forever
Farewell is like the end
But in my heart's the memory
And there you'll always be
-- The Fox and the Hound
You have to remember these are roleplaying games, some of us have had names in our heads of superheroes we've wanted to see true to life since we were kids. It's kinda like getting punched in the face when you find out that same name is already taken and being rarely used by someone as an alt.
I know one of my very first names for a hero I came up with as a kid was already taken and what rubbed salt in the wound was it was also the name I was using in beta. So it really stung.
I got over it(sort of) and have since then come up with names I like, but every now and then I check to see if it's available. I even used a variation with spaces once but it's just not the same.
Those heroes you've had in your head forever have to be 100% or it's a no go. At least that's how it is for me.
It's not that all the names are gone. Just the names we really want are gone.
So, if someone says something horrible to someone else, but didn't MEAN to, or didn't THINK it was all that bad, the appropriate response would be?
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"Wait, so are you saying that <fill in the blanks>? Really?"
If the response is "Yeah, I am!" then, by all means, punch him in the mouth. But in pretty much every case I've ever asked that, and I ask this almost every time I see something I suspect is really bad, the response has been "Wait, what? No! What I meant was <fill in the blanks>!"
I realise that I don't always practise what I preach, but that's still, in my eyes, the best approach.
Samuel_Tow is the only poster that makes me want to punch him in the head more often when I'm agreeing with him than when I'm disagreeing with him.
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Ah, see, the problem is that the very term "original" is objective by nature. Ergo it does not by its nature defy any objective definition. Yet it is often disused subjectively. To say something is original in that fashion is like saying absolutely that it is the first of its kind, when what is more likely is that the viewer was previously unfamiliar with the item in question.
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Basically, you shouldn't define the term "original" as something purely objective, because that's not how people use it. Certainly you can hold them to task to the dictionary meaning of the word (I guess, I haven't checked), but that's just bogging things down into semantics, specifically when you know what they're actually trying to say. "Original," as people mostly use it, is a value judgement just the same as "cool" or "creative." It may not necessarily "mean" that, but that's what people say it to mean, anyway. You could keep insisting that it should mean something else, just as I keep insisting that colour and armour are spelled with a U, but you really should read the word as people say it, not necessarily how it "should" be used.
Generally, I find it's a good idea to try and figure out what people mean, even if you have reword it completely in your head. Language, by its very nature, is never precise, clear and unambiguous, and the more exact you try to make it, harder it becomes to understand, ironically. I don't think it's reasonable to expect people to be precise in their phrasing when what we all do is basically hurl words and sentences at each other in the hopes that the other will "get it." It's one step removed from prodding your mate and pointing to that can of beer, hoping that he'll spark an imagination and understand you want him to hand it to you. Language isn't actually too much more precise than that.
Samuel_Tow is the only poster that makes me want to punch him in the head more often when I'm agreeing with him than when I'm disagreeing with him.
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The appropriate response would be:
"Wait, so are you saying that <fill in the blanks>? Really?" If the response is "Yeah, I am!" then, by all means, punch him in the mouth. But in pretty much every case I've ever asked that, and I ask this almost every time I see something I suspect is really bad, the response has been "Wait, what? No! What I meant was <fill in the blanks>!" I realise that I don't always practise what I preach, but that's still, in my eyes, the best approach. |
If YOU say something/do something bad to SOMEONE ELSE and they are UNHAPPY with that, even if you didn't MEAN it, what would be YOUR appropriate response?
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There's a breakdown in communication here.
If YOU say something/do something bad to SOMEONE ELSE and they are UNHAPPY with that, even if you didn't MEAN it, what would be YOUR appropriate response? |
I guess if you gave me some context about how I didn't think I was doing something bad but I suddenly realised I was and what my reaction would be to that, then I could work from there, but as you formulate your statement, I just don't know what you're asking.
Off the cuffs, my reaction to the situation as you describe it would be "Sorry about that."
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Love some of the tags for this thread...
Also, fighting over something objective like what a "good" name is makes you all silly. If the only "good" name you want is Billy Bob and it's taken, you're gonna be ticked. If you consider a "good" name something that fits your character, you'll always have options. Easy as that in my eyes.