Looking for a girlfriend who plays COH/COV
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Posted on: 2009-12-17 10:02 in Player Questions
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Originally Posted by Emberly
What works: meet someone, get to know them, discover you share some interests, find that those interests support what you want in the relationship.
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Actually Emberly, I've found that the interests actually have LITTLE to do with whether a relationship will work long term or not. Interests are fine for the short term, but for the LONG term you have to share the same basic and fundamental beliefs and opinions about the most important things in life.... essentially life goals and direction.
You can have totally different interests, but if you share the same belief in faith, politics, and your eventual life goals, it is much easier to work it out.
If you share all the SAME interests, but your faith, politics, and life goals are completely different, it won't last long.
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To be fair, not every woman demands "Yes Dear" and "You're right/I was wrong, Dear"
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Originally Posted by Westley
Well miracles DO happen!
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Orc&Pie No.53230 There is an orc, and somehow, he got a pie. And you are hungry.
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Originally Posted by Rajani Isa
To be fair, not every woman demands "Yes Dear" and "You're right/I was wrong, Dear"
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Yes dear, you're right.
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Amen.
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Originally Posted by Westley
Actually Emberly, I've found that the interests actually have LITTLE to do with whether a relationship will work long term or not. Interests are fine for the short term, but for the LONG term you have to share the same basic and fundamental beliefs and opinions about the most important things in life.... essentially life goals and direction.
You can have totally different interests, but if you share the same belief in faith, politics, and your eventual life goals, it is much easier to work it out. If you share all the SAME interests, but your faith, politics, and life goals are completely different, it won't last long. |
Yeah all that is true too! The OP didn't seem to care about anything but hobbies, so that's all I addressed. That's what I meant when I said that hobbies aren't the glue that holds a relationship together. Interests, hobbies, all that is pretty peripheral. However it's nice to have something you differ in opinion on, other wise what are you gonna argue about?! 
As long as you don't argue about the IMPORTANT stuff is the point I was essentially trying to make. Unimportant arguments are the spice of life, just look at these boards as an example.
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Totally true! My wife and I argue about things like the relative importance of different paradigms of psychological research or whether we should go see one movie or the other. If we argued about money, politics, religion, or whether we want kids, that's a whole different kettle of fish. I guess what I was trying to say is that it's silly to make a hobby a dealbreaker in a relationship.
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Originally Posted by Westley
As long as you don't argue about the IMPORTANT stuff is the point I was essentially trying to make. Unimportant arguments are the spice of life, just look at these boards as an example.
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Originally Posted by Westley
As long as you don't argue about the IMPORTANT stuff is the point I was essentially trying to make. Unimportant arguments are the spice of life, just look at these boards as an example.
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... Wait, that isn't what you meant?
Orc&Pie No.53230 There is an orc, and somehow, he got a pie. And you are hungry.
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Oh it's on now!
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But what if it's the widow of a recently dead army officer, banker or president? They often seem to have a lot of money, but might need help with banking it - perhaps you could help them out?
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Originally Posted by MYYST_BLAKWIDOW
Just please don't be from Ghana or Nigeria or Somalia.
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@Golden Girl
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But it helps a lot - honesty is vital in a relationship.
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Originally Posted by Rajani Isa
To be fair, not every woman demands "Yes Dear" and "You're right/I was wrong, Dear"
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@Golden Girl
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But isn't one of the most important things to speak the language of love like you know what it means?
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Originally Posted by BigFish
Somehow, I'm beginning to think that English is not his first language...
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@Golden Girl
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Para contestar una pregunta aqui. Mi premer lenguaje es espanol. El ingles era segundo. No intiendo muy buen la contruction de escribier en ingles. Primero dios que esto puede esplicar lo que pregunto algen antes aqui. Y tambien quero que sepan todo ustedes algo. No es lo mas importante que la mujer juege el mismo juego que yo. Pero no quedo que ella se noje con migo porque yo quero jugar COh/COV cuando me da la gana. Asta luego.
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Mi lenguaje natural es una lengua extraña del planeta Mur. Es llamado por mi pueblo "la lengua de los samurai de queso". Hablamos en cualquier lugar hay dos personas de nuestra raza, que son todos los samuráis de queso, por supuesto! Pero cuando estamos en torno a otros, sólo se habla en jerigonza. Se les confunde y les hace pensar que somos extranjeros en otro país. Que es perfecto porque nos permite ocultar nuestra verdadera identidad como samurai queso.|
Originally Posted by MYYST_BLAKWIDOW
Para contestar una pregunta aqui. Mi premer lenguaje es espanol. El ingles era segundo. No intiendo muy buen la contruction de escribier en ingles. Primero dios que esto puede esplicar lo que pregunto algen antes aqui. Y tambien quero que sepan todo ustedes algo. No es lo mas importante que la mujer juege el mismo juego que yo. Pero no quedo que ella se noje con migo porque yo quero jugar COh/COV cuando me da la gana. Asta luego.
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Algunas personas incluso nos llaman monjes cheddar, pero no nos gusta ese término.
taco bell?
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That face plant is soo painful, 0 points.
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Originally Posted by eryq2
taco bell?
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Orc&Pie No.53230 There is an orc, and somehow, he got a pie. And you are hungry.
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To the OP:
It's been my experience that meeting girls in MMO's is a very very bad idea. The girls that I've ever taked to online have all turned out to be rather insane. It may seem like a good idea on paper, but the reality is that it becomes more hassle than its worth. That is the nature of relationships in general though so you have a choice: put up with the attitude of the anti gamer girls or put up with the psychosis of the gamer girls.
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*bland expression* Are you f###ing kidding me? This is the definition of stereotyping, and the basis of discrimination.|
Originally Posted by Inokis
To the OP:
It's been my experience that meeting girls in MMO's is a very very bad idea. The girls that I've ever taked to online have all turned out to be rather insane. It may seem like a good idea on paper, but the reality is that it becomes more hassle than its worth. That is the nature of relationships in general though so you have a choice: put up with the attitude of the anti gamer girls or put up with the psychosis of the gamer girls. |
I met my boyfriend through an online game. We've been dating for three years now. "Psychoses"? Eff you, too, bucko.
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Originally Posted by Dispari
I don't know why Dink thinks she's not as sexy as Jay was. In 5 posts she's already upstaged his entire career.
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Originally Posted by Aggelakis
*bland expression* Are you f###ing kidding me?
... "Psychoses"? Eff you, too, bucko. |
I think Inokis rests his case!
Weren't you the one that was saying words don't have meaning, they're just words? So why are you attributing any emotion to my words, thus giving them some meaning other than what's written?
If you'd feel ever so much better, I could remove the profanities.
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Originally Posted by Dispari
I don't know why Dink thinks she's not as sexy as Jay was. In 5 posts she's already upstaged his entire career.
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Girls have cooties too, did I mention that?
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Originally Posted by Aggelakis
*bland expression* Are you f###ing kidding me? This is the definition of stereotyping, and the basis of discrimination.
I met my boyfriend through an online game. We've been dating for three years now. "Psychoses"? Eff you, too, bucko. |
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Because it's funny to me and convenient.
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Originally Posted by Aggelakis
Weren't you the one that was saying words don't have meaning, they're just words? So why are you attributing any emotion to my words, thus giving them some meaning other than what's written
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I have a gamer sister and can PM you a seven digit number for say...... 250 mil inf.
Just jokes....
350 mil.
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Originally Posted by Westley
Mi lenguaje natural es una lengua extraña del planeta Mur. Es llamado por mi pueblo "la lengua de los samurai de queso". Hablamos en cualquier lugar hay dos personas de nuestra raza, que son todos los samuráis de queso, por supuesto! Pero cuando estamos en torno a otros, sólo se habla en jerigonza. Se les confunde y les hace pensar que somos extranjeros en otro país. Que es perfecto porque nos permite ocultar nuestra verdadera identidad como samurai queso.
Algunas personas incluso nos llaman monjes cheddar, pero no nos gusta ese término. |
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