SinisterDirge

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  1. Quote:
    Originally Posted by Mazey View Post
    Because all people who might want to harm children appear inherently creepy?
    Nope, but thankfully after I have already discarded the creepy folks, I can pay more attention to the social cues of people that only make my radar twitch instead of scream.

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    Here's an idea, rather than just judging someone on first impressions, actually get to know someone before leaving your children with them.
    I would never leave my children with someone I'd only met once, regardless of my first impressions.
    That's brilliant! Holy ****, why didn't I think of that? Well, now I can pay attention to first impressions AND leave my kids with people I have gotten to know. I was still a little worried before...

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    Why do you believe that a bad person can never give a good first impression and a good person can never give a bad one?
    Why do you believe that's what I believe? I am pretty sure I said that someone who gives me a bad first impression will have to work harder to turn that around. I didn't say I completely write someone off from a first impression. Just like I wouldn't completely trust someone after a favorable first impression.

    But to say that one should ignore first impressions is foolish IMO.
  2. Quote:
    Originally Posted by Mazey View Post
    Yes, human-beings naturally judge someone based upon first impressions, but, that's not a good thing.

    It's an animal instinct left over from millions of years ago. It's the main cause of racism and most bigotry.

    Yes, humans do judge based upon first impressions, but they shouldn't.
    Yes they should. If someone creeps me the **** out upon meeting them for the first time, I am not going to leave my kids with them.

    I can logically work my way through and ignore ridiculous stereotypes and avoid bigotry and racism.

    It's survival instinct, and my experiences in life have taught me not to ignore it.
  3. SinisterDirge

    Online gaming

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    Originally Posted by Evil_Legacy View Post
    Like any addiction, if you go out and say, “Hey, from the looks of it, I’d say you are showing classic symptoms of an addiction.” Most of the time, well outside those one or two, they will absolutely deny any addiction and say their behavior is absolutely normal behavior. The more people try to convince an addict that they have a problem, the more they probably will deny it. This usually end the way it began. The addict will still be an addict and the person that pointed it out gets no closer to doing anything useful to get that addict to see the addiction, the unnatural and potentially, in some cases, dangerous behavior.
    Interesting, let me try.

    Like any deviancy, if you go out and say, “Hey, from the looks of it, I’d say you are showing classic symptoms of being bat **** crazy.” Most of the time, well outside those one or two (examples?), they will deny any abnormality and say their behavior is absolutely fine. The more people try to convince the loon that they have a problem, the more the kook will resist reality. This will usually end the way it began, except with a large population all facepalming at the same time. The nutter will still be a flake and the people that point it out are no closer to getting the crackpot to see their behavior deficiency. This is perfectly natural and in most cases, working as intended.

    Anyway, thanks for sharing your... Er, someone elses I guess, thesis(maybe) on gaming addiction. Maybe this should be posted in the guides section as there isn't much fun about it at all...
  4. Quote:
    Originally Posted by Mazey View Post
    He could have just been having a bad day.

    I don't know, I've never met the guy, he could be a complete ****-hole for all I know, but one bad encounter is hardly enough to make such a judgement.


    And, as a general observation, people on internet forums seem to love finding fault with the personalities of web-comic artists, for some reason.
    First impressions and all that. I have stopped listening to a few different bands music because I had the unfortunate chance to interact with them after the show. It's a shame, because I really liked their music, but I am not going to pay someone to piss* on me.

    One bad encounter is enough. They will need to work hard to get me to change my impression of them.

    *At no point was I actually pissed on at a concert.
  5. Have always preferred Perez over Hollows for my hazard zone street sweeping. Much like Crey's Folly over Eden and Terra over DA.
  6. Quote:
    Originally Posted by Black Zot View Post
    Only one I recognized was the post in Klingon immediately above mine.
    Welsh makes more sense when you're pissed up. Then again, you make more sense to the Welsh when you're pissed up.
  7. Quote:
    Originally Posted by Black Pebble View Post
    I'd like to take this moment to announce a new effort.

    Please help Alpha Wolf stay at Level 1! We need the community to really band together to help train as many purple mobs to Alpha Wolf, wherever he is. Don't think of this as griefing, think of this as helping him become a stronger, more durable and more seasoned player. It's like how Daniel-San learned how to be a Karate Master and a better person by having all of the cool kids in his high school relentlessly harass him, beat him up, and even break his leg so he could learn how to fit in.

    The winner will find out Alpha Wolf's secret identity of Clark Kent!


    Whoops.
    Why wern't you on the writing team again?
  8. Stay gold Ponyboy, stay gold.
  9. Quote:
    Originally Posted by M_I_Abrahms View Post
    Badge was a good one for odd ideas. He was also all about getting a bunch of us to go over to other servers in large groups and in one theme. I think the first time was to have everyone doing /e newspaper, but it was different every time.

    The reactions of the other servers varied, but the best one was Justice, who decided to try to do the same thing back to us.


    So we held a Robot Rampage on their gathering.

    Fun was had by all. (not kidding, either. There was a lot of comments much the same as your own about this idea.)
    I remember this. Fun was indeed had.

    My favorite was herding a full map to a designated trip mine field set by my buddy. No aggro or aoe caps for the win.
  10. SinisterDirge

    VIP Gaming

    Virtue slowed down a bunch, but it is picking back up.
  11. Just to update. On Virtue tonight, we actually had an iTrial team running. Was good to see peeps coming out to run a few trials again.
  12. Quote:
    Originally Posted by Thirty-Seven View Post
    And this is why I hate memes. I have never even heard a hint of that one before a minute ago. It would seem I don't spend enough time on the internet? I mean, where do folks actually see these things?
    Www.reddit.com I apologize in advance if you go there and find yourself getting up from your chair 3 days later covered in your own filth. But, better yours than someone else's no?
  13. Quote:
    Originally Posted by Bill Z Bubba View Post
    Damn skippy. What better way to go out?

    Edit: I reran all the DA arcs over the last two nights. That final Dream Doctor mission, kill 200 BP, then 7 Ravagers plus their spawns just to get in the door... now THAT is a mission to run at x8.
    Yep. Pretty sure it's my favorite mission in the game.
  14. This has been my experience as well. Morale seems to be at an all time low, and the folks that are playing seem to be trying to lvl their lowbies up.

    I know it does nothing for incarnate content, but I tend to fill teams very easily if running a decent arc like Maria or some such.

    Also, I am playing on virtue.
  15. Can someone Eventually transcribe what tony has said. Too much jibber jabber going on.
  16. SinisterDirge

    CoX Emu anyone?

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    Originally Posted by Moderated_IRL View Post
    You're supposed to keep private servers, you know, private.
    That is crazy talk. Hey, anyone know where I can download all the things?
  17. I am amused that the Afkers are being griefed by having gms spawned on them.
  18. I will have 3 toons in different instances. I will be predominantly afk, but will be checking in periodically.
  19. My first 50 will be most likely rounding up critters in boomtown and frying them off like he just got burn again. My other account may hero watch in atlas and reflect on my first log in.
  20. We need a missed connections sub forum.

    I am amused at the thought of the dude trying to plug your globals into working phone number.