Cultural Differences and Forum Moderation


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Imagine, if you will, a British-made film depicting the battle of Midway that ends up going very badly for the US. Then, when the Japanese are on the very cusp of victory a group of King George V battleships and Illustrious carriers steam into view and single-handedly wipe out the Imperial fleet and save the day.

We all know how our transatlantic cousins would react to such butchery of their proud moments in history. Yet they feel other nations are overreacting when they express those exact same sentiments.
Can we have a rough cut ready for next years Sundance?

Even if done as a straight, serious piece of film that has such potential to be unintentionally funny.


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"I treat all posts as opinions, even when they're claiming facts. Facts require proof, and proof is for alcohol and mathematics."

This is either a hastily thought through flippancy, or negates any point in enterung into any debate on anything with you if it truly how you operate. If we cannot agree on any kind of baseground to start from, whats the point of talking to you?

"The movie Pearl Harbour starred Ben Affleck" I say,
"Thats your opinion" is a ludicrous stance to take.

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Originally Posted by Samuel_Tow View Post
[The Incarnate System is] Jack Emmert all over again, only this time it's not "1 hero = 3 white minions" it's "1 hero = 3 white rocks."

 

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Originally Posted by MrCaptainMan_NA View Post
This is either a hastily thought through flippancy, or negates any point in enterung into any debate on anything with you if it truly how you operate. If we cannot agree on any kind of baseground to start from, whats the point of talking to you?

"The movie Pearl Harbour starred Ben Affleck" I say,
"Thats your opinion" is a ludicrous stance to take.

Eco
Clearly you've never heard that phrase before. It's satirical, don'tchaknow.


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Originally Posted by MrCaptainMan_NA View Post
'spade' is an offensive term to the majority of the forum-goers. Thats enough.
Actually, all we seem to know for sure (from GrinningSpade) is that it is offensive to more than one forum-goer. Or at least it is when seen in close proximity to the avatar that GrinningSpade used to have and was in itself more cause for offense than the name.

We know this as there were multiple complaints mentioned and GS has been asked to remove the avatar (although he initially reported that both the avatar and name needed changing).

Ideally no offence will be caused to any forum-goers - although given the range of cultures and sensibilities involved that is nigh impossible - but it's a long way from more than one forum-goer is offended to the majority are.


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"Imagine, if you will, a British-made film depicting the battle of Midway that ends up going very badly for the US. Then, when the Japanese are on the very cusp of victory a group of King George V battleships and Illustrious carriers steam into view and single-handedly wipe out the Imperial fleet and save the day.

We all know how our transatlantic cousins would react to such butchery of their proud moments in history. Yet they feel other nations are overreacting when they express those exact same sentiments."

firstly, this would be an awesome film.

secondly, some americans, namely po-faced humorless rah-rah 'how dare you sirrah?' types would very likely complain. But they'd be IMO missing the point.

What's your opinion of Enigma, btw?

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Originally Posted by Samuel_Tow View Post
[The Incarnate System is] Jack Emmert all over again, only this time it's not "1 hero = 3 white minions" it's "1 hero = 3 white rocks."

 

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"Clearly you've never heard that phrase before. It's satirical, don'tchaknow."

you're right, i wasnt aware that you were quoting someone else. Insread of smugly pointing this out and leaving it at that, perhaps you could educate me?

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Originally Posted by Samuel_Tow View Post
[The Incarnate System is] Jack Emmert all over again, only this time it's not "1 hero = 3 white minions" it's "1 hero = 3 white rocks."

 

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"Ideally no offence will be caused to any forum-goers - although given the range of cultures and sensibilities involved that is nigh impossible - but it's a long way from more than one forum-goer is offended to the majority are."

i said that 'spade' is offensive to the majority, not grinningspade etc.

By the majority i meant the US portion of the forum goers. Im pretty sure that if upu asked all the US forum goers, they'd say that they considered 'spade' an offensive term.

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Originally Posted by Samuel_Tow View Post
[The Incarnate System is] Jack Emmert all over again, only this time it's not "1 hero = 3 white minions" it's "1 hero = 3 white rocks."

 

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Originally Posted by MrCaptainMan_NA View Post
"Clearly you've never heard that phrase before. It's satirical, don'tchaknow."

you're right, i wasnt aware that you were quoting someone else. Insread of smugly pointing this out and leaving it at that, perhaps you could educate me?

Eco
It's a pretty common phrase that I've come across literally hundreds of times in the 25 years I've been online, though it's often used in more scientific parlance. Generally, it gets used when someone is presenting something as unequivocal proof, when all they have is either opinion, or anecdotal evidence.


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Originally Posted by MrCaptainMan_NA View Post
i said that 'spade' is offensive to the majority, not grinningspade etc.

By the majority i meant the US portion of the forum goers. Im pretty sure that if upu asked all the US forum goers, they'd say that they considered 'spade' an offensive term.

Eco
Unless more people actually made complaints to the mods than didn't (which would require more than 50% of the ENTIRE forum population to make a complaint about it, then claiming it's offensive to the majority is nothing but hyperbole.

Unless, of course, you have evidence of that?


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I just spent 25 minutes writing a long, relevant and what I thought intellectually stimulating constribution to this debate, but for the third time since these new forums kicked off I was "logged out" when it came time to post, and I lost the whole thing.

I thought we were getting new forum software to safeguard against this kind of performance, but it seems all we got was different colored cr*p in larger portions.

Can anyone explain to me why I should bother with this forum anymore?


 

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I just spent 25 minutes writing a long, relevant and what I thought intellectually stimulating constribution to this debate, but for the third time since these new forums kicked off I was "logged out" when it came time to post, and I lost the whole thing.

I thought we were getting new forum software to safeguard against this kind of performance, but it seems all we got was different colored cr*p in larger portions.

Can anyone explain to me why I should bother with this forum anymore?
Are you using the uk.boards.cityofheroes.com url? If so, remove the UK part and it seems to fix most of the problems people are having.


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Are you using the uk.boards.cityofheroes.com url? If so, remove the UK part and it seems to fix most of the problems people are having.
Nope: boards.cityofheroes.com is the path, and it doesn't matter whether I login or not: the software doesn't recognise me. I have to log in twice to make sure I'm in, and then it has a tendency to log me out before I can post anything that takes me more than two minutes to write.

No wonder these boards have so many +1 replies, if that's all you can do before getting booted off.

Still fuming because we were promised better software, but instead we got a merge into something too bulky, unwieldy and unpredictable to allow some of us to cope with this new, homogenous mammoth.

I mean - there's free hosted forum space out there that's better than this!


 

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"Unless, of course, you have evidence of that?"

i may if course be mistaken, but i have been under the impression for some time that 'spade' was a term generally thought of In the US as an offensive term for a person with african ancestry. Rather like 'wog' in the UK. You're obviously an intelligent person; do you think 'spade' is offensive to enough americans to make my impression accurate?

Eco

edited to add 'in the US'


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Originally Posted by Samuel_Tow View Post
[The Incarnate System is] Jack Emmert all over again, only this time it's not "1 hero = 3 white minions" it's "1 hero = 3 white rocks."

 

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Originally Posted by MrCaptainMan_NA View Post
"Unless, of course, you have evidence of that?"

i may if course be mistaken, but i have been under the impression for some time that 'spade' was a term generally thought of as an offensive term for a person with african ancestry. Rather like 'wog' in the UK. You're obviously an intelligent person; do you think 'spade' is offensive to enough americans to make my impression accurate?

Eco
I would provisionally accept that it MAY be, pending evidence.

However, I wouldn't accept that it was sufficiently offensive for someone who has HAD that name since Dec 2007 without ANY complaints, to now have to change it just because a few folks have a thin skin.

Note: I would be of exactly the same opinion were the situations reversed. Our communities have merged, so each side is going to have to learn that some things that may be offensive to one side, are not so to the other, and therefore should just be ignored.


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FFM - i think you're going to be disappointed, then.

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Originally Posted by Samuel_Tow View Post
[The Incarnate System is] Jack Emmert all over again, only this time it's not "1 hero = 3 white minions" it's "1 hero = 3 white rocks."

 

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Originally Posted by MrCaptainMan_NA View Post
FFM - i think you're going to be disappointed, then.

Eco
Perhaps, and if so, then perhaps my feeling that this is more than just an issue over a name will be vindicated.

In which case, the EU community may be proven to be as irrelevant to NCSoft as some of us have often felt.


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"In which case, the EU community may be proven to be as irrelevant to NCSoft as some of us have often felt."

this is interesting to me, a Brit who's been playing on the US servers for 4.5 yrs now. Why do you say this?

The EU players get the exact same game, dont they? Is it purely the shortfall in server numbers Compared to the US game that irks you?

Is the UK game laggy or often down for long periods?

Who is 'some of us', btw, is it a signidicant enough portion to warrant NCSoft listening to from an economic point of view? I dont kbow about the UK game, but there are. Numbers somewhere that show that the US forumgoers are a tiny portion of the US playerbase. Is this different for the UK subscriptions?

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Originally Posted by Samuel_Tow View Post
[The Incarnate System is] Jack Emmert all over again, only this time it's not "1 hero = 3 white minions" it's "1 hero = 3 white rocks."

 

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Originally Posted by GrinningSpade View Post
Just received a notification from Avatea that my name and Avatar is causing some troubles. Apparently a spade is something offensive as well as a card 'color' and a tool to dig holes. My Avatar reminds people of an old theatre style. Now if they would take offense of me being a notorious villain I would not have minded.

As it is, my forumname and avatar will have to be changed due to 'cultural differences'
I can't tell you what to do but I can tell you what I'd do in the same situation. PM Avatea with the details of what the name means to you and why you chose that avatar and ask for her opinion on how to keep your concept without offending anyone.

(even if the anyone are most likely a few nutcases that assume someone else would be offended and never really found offense themselves... yeah, that happens. It's annoying and frequently stupid but it happens. Someone sees a character in-game that they think would be offensive to someone else and /petitions them...)

So the best I can come up with is to explain the concept you're going for and ask how to keep that without bothering some... nutcases...

But! I did not say nutcases as I do not wish to offend my crazy brethren.


 

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this is interesting to me, a Brit who's been playing on the US servers for 4.5 yrs now. Why do you say this?

The EU players get the exact same game, dont they? Is it purely the shortfall in server numbers Compared to the US game that irks you?

Is the UK game laggy or often down for long periods?

Who is 'some of us', btw, is it a signidicant enough portion to warrant NCSoft listening to from an economic point of view? I dont kbow about the UK game, but there are. Numbers somewhere that show that the US forumgoers are a tiny portion of the US playerbase. Is this different for the UK subscriptions?

Eco
To understand it fully, you would have needed to be a member of the EU community for a while. Part of the feeling is the almost non-existent dev interaction; something that's always kinda annoyed many of us, especially the more vocal forum members, another is that our suggestions are pretty much universally ignored, another is the fact that US and EU GM's run on different rules completely, with you having the much better deal.

In fact, on that side, one of our members carried out an experiment. He accidentally deleted one of his characters EU side, and was told by a GM that it was policy not to restore deleted chars. Obviously that annoyed him greatly as he KNEW that wasn't the case in the US. So, he created a US account, made a character, then deleted it and petitioned the GM's. His character was restored with no quibbles whatsoever. Nice, eh?

Another is that yes, our game IS significantly more laggy than the American one, and in fact, in the UK at least, we can get a FAR better connection to the US servers than we can to our own, which is ridiculous. Nothing has EVER been done to address this, despite MANY complaints.

Hell, we even got Global Chat nearly a full YEAR after it was launched in the US...

This thing with GrinningSpades name is just one more thing to add to it all. It blatantly sends out the message that US sensibilities are more important than EU ones.

EDIT: I'd point out though, that this isn't by any means, a universal feeling among EU players, but it IS felt among quite a few.


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It blatantly sends out the message that US sensibilities are more important than EU ones.
I don't know for sure, and it's probably no consolation for the feelings, but after working in a large corporation for years, it's all about the numbers. Majority rules and all that. I doubt it has anything to do with who's from where. I mean, I'm in Florida... the laughingstock of the rest of the nation... the forerunner for all news that's weird... it's normal here.

Anyway, maybe the merging of the forums is the beginning of the end of the seperation issues? Hopefully.


 

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Anyway, maybe the merging of the forums is the beginning of the end of the seperation issues? Hopefully.
Florida is my favourite part of the US... In Winter.

And I truly hope it IS a beginning of the end of such issues, but things like this name issue REALLY don't help...


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"To understand it fully, you would have needed to be a member of the EU community for a while. Part of the feeling is the almost non-existent dev interaction; something that's always kinda annoyed many of us, especially the more vocal forum members, another is that our suggestions are pretty much universally ignored, another is the fact that US and EU GM's run on different rules completely, with you having the much better deal.

In fact, on that side, one of our members carried out an experiment. He accidentally deleted one of his characters EU side, and was told by a GM that it was policy not to restore deleted chars. Obviously that annoyed him greatly as he KNEW that wasn't the case in the US. So, he created a US account, made a character, then deleted it and petitioned the GM's. His character was restored with no quibbles whatsoever. Nice, eh?

Another is that yes, our game IS significantly more laggy than the American one, and in fact, in the UK at least, we can get a FAR better connection to the US servers than we can to our own, which is ridiculous. Nothing has EVER been done to address this, despite MANY complaints."

wow. I'm glad i didnt switch when i had the chance. If of course what you claim is true. As per your own 'everythings an opinion' approach, i've got no evidence to go on.

Be that as it may, if you are playing a laggy dev-free game with horrible GMs, then you have my sympathy. it must be awful. Lets hope they 'merge' server lists in the same way they did with the forums, eh? Then you'll be able to take part in Dev-attended events at 4:30am on a thursday in pocket D, experience the wonder that is Freedoms AP AE building on a double xp rikti invasion weekend, and use the admittedly great in-game US GMs (average time to respond In my experience 5 minutes).

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Originally Posted by Samuel_Tow View Post
[The Incarnate System is] Jack Emmert all over again, only this time it's not "1 hero = 3 white minions" it's "1 hero = 3 white rocks."

 

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Originally Posted by FloatingFatMan View Post
Florida is my favourite part of the US... In Winter.

And I truly hope it IS a beginning of the end of such issues, but things like this name issue REALLY don't help...
What's really funny, here, people who've lived in Florida for several generations are called 'crackers'. We even have a yearly 'Florida Cracker Festival'. Yet, anywhere else in the US, cracker is a derogatory term for either white people in general or redneck/hicks.

So technically, I'm a cracker in a good way to some and in a bad way to others. Heehee... it cracks me up though. I mean seriously, all I can do is laugh or go mad.


 

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Be that as it may, if you are playing a laggy dev-free game with horrible GMs, then you have my sympathy. it must be awful. Lets hope they 'merge' server lists in the same way they did with the forums, eh? Then you'll be able to take part in Dev-attended events at 4:30am on a thursday in pocket D, experience the wonder that is Freedoms AP AE building on a double xp rikti invasion weekend, and use the admittedly great in-game US GMs (average time to respond In my experience 5 minutes).

Eco
We get NONE of that, didn't even know you HAD Dev attended events on Thursday.

As for GM response time, it's anywhere from a few hours, to your petition being automatically closed without even an automated email... In 4+ years of playing, I've NEVER had a GM get back to me in anything less than 3 days...


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What's really funny, here, people who've lived in Florida for several generations are called 'crackers'. We even have a yearly 'Florida Cracker Festival'. Yet, anywhere else in the US, cracker is a derogatory term for either white people in general or redneck/hicks.

So technically, I'm a cracker in a good way to some and in a bad way to others. Heehee... it cracks me up though. I mean seriously, all I can do is laugh or go mad.
I actually lived in Florida for 6 months, back in 1983/4. Town called Holiday, just up from Tarpon Springs.


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