Help!?!?

I'm sorry if this question was asked before, i didn't see it. But anyway, how do i get my widow to hero side???? I'm lvl 20 so far...

any help would be much appreciated ty

Starting at 20, you'll receive Tips at random for defeating enemies. It works like another kind of drop, but they appear as a tab in your Contacts window. Go to that tab once you have one, and choose to Investigate it (note that you need to be in a city zone restricted to your side in order to do so). You'll be able to choose between two different alignment missions, one for Villains, and one for Rogues. If your goal is to become a hero as quickly as possible, you'll want to do the Rogue missions. You can do up to 5 Alignment Missions each day. Once you've done 10 for a particular alignment, the next Tip drop you get will be for a Morality mission. Do the Morality mission and your alignment will be changed. Once you've become a Rogue, head to Paragon City (through any of the shared zones, or the submarine in Sharkhead), and the tip missions there will allow you to become a Hero from your current Rogue status.

These can also help.

http://boards.cityofheroes.com/showthread.php?t=233918

http://boards.cityofheroes.com/showthread.php?t=232961

To summarize slightly what Lazarillo said this will take 4 days (or more accurately you have to wait 20hours between each step):

Day1: Do 5 Rogue Alignment Missions
Day2: Do 5 Rogue Alignment Missions + 1 Rogue Morality Mission
Day3: Do 5 Hero Alignment Missions
Day4: Do 5 Hero Alignment Missions + 1 Hero Morality Mission

And to expand on the expand...

While you are a Rogue in Paragon City, you won't be able to do any Contact missions (you can gather contacts, but they won't talk to you).

You have to get your tip missions from doing Police Scanner (ie newspaper) missions, from street sweeping, or from joining a team doing someone else's hero missions.

Also - if you don't go down the alignment change path immediately, it's possible that you will end up with some Alignment Merits (villain merits for villains and/or hero merits for heroes), either from earning them or from converting normal merits into A-Merits. Whenever you do an actual alignment change (villain to rogue, rogue to hero, hero to vigilante, vigilante to villain) any existing A-Merits you have at that time will be DELETED, so be sure and spend any that you might accumulate before you switch alignments.

I have got to say thank you so much for all the detail, i really feel privileged to be apart of such a great community,everyone i know is hero side but i love my widow, i'm working on the tips as we speak lol, and to the heroes, i'll see you in 2-4 days

Just to state the obvious, because I didn't see anyone else mention this -- you need to have bought and applied Going Rogue before you can switch sides.

Welcome to the game and the forums, Everbrun

Welcome to CoX, Everburn.

Take the time to read the mission dialogs. The writers did an exceptional job.

Don't be in a rush to get to 50, there is a great deal in the game to enjoy on your way there.