sidney_b

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  1. Uh oh, I've called attention to myself. I suppose it's too late to vanish? (Nice to see you all again!)

    Anyway, sometimes the only way to make a purposeful, compelling story is to ask a few friends and run one yourself.

    It's a lot harder, but.
  2. Quote:
    Originally Posted by Merry_Mint View Post
    My characters feel like nightclub attendees. Has your character ever been involved in a purposeful, compelling story about superheroes? How did you achieve this?

    Help!
    Several times, a long time ago.

    How? I don't really remember, but I know for a few of them, I ran them with a few friends and colleagues.
  3. Quote:
    Originally Posted by The_Spartan View Post
    But, I'm sure this is the appropriate server for such a question.

    Say you're orchestrating a roleplay that involves framing someone for a crime of some sort. Is it not the right thing to do to OOCLY ask the person being framed if it's okay to include them in your storyline? Especially in that capacity?

    I, personally, think it's bad form to pull someone into your storyline without their consent. Especially when that person's role reflects upon them negatively. What do YOU think, Virtue?
    Well, it depends. The decent, honorable, correct thing is to ask for their consent.

    But if you don't really want to be friends with them, want to start some internets drama, and be kind of a jerk, you don't have to.

    Either way, if the story's told well, it'll be good. It's just that with the latter case, there'll be a humorous gossip-y side story too.

    But in the interest of harmony, I'd recommend not doing that.
  4. sidney_b

    Hi guys!

    Quote:
    Originally Posted by Eiko-chan View Post
    The best comic movie ever was Adam West Batman.
    Oh, that movie. Some days, you just can't get rid of a bomb.

    (I do <3 that movie, but for its campiness.)
  5. sidney_b

    Hi guys!

    Quote:
    Originally Posted by Sorah View Post
    She was my least favorite because she was the biggest hypocrit.

    Charlotte may have been a naive, conditioned, agenda-ridden little girl, but she accepted that.

    Samantha may have been "loose," man-hating, committment phobe, but she accepted that.

    Carrie was love-sick and self abusive, but she accepted that.

    Miranda was a wannabe-feminist and tried to shove her personal dogma down everyone else's throat all the while, she was in complete denial over her own MAJOR flaws most of which were in direct contradiction with her "ideals." (And she never deserved Steve. Just sayin')
    I think I may be tipsy enough to argue this.

    Charlotte was a stupid little girl who was too idiotic and blind to ever consider that her whiny, sniveling desire to be a kept woman crippled her as a person.

    Samantha was fine. Her libertine ways were her expression of her power.

    Carrie was a masochist who ended up with Mr. Big, who was, honestly, a really lousy person.

    Miranda was smart, sassy, and blessed with a sharp wit; she might have lacked a bit in the self-awareness arena, but her major flaw (i.e., the inherent contradiction of her viewpoints with her unrequited desires) were at least understandable, and characteristic of anybody in our generation.
  6. sidney_b

    Hi guys!

    The only character worth her salt on that show was Miranda.
  7. Quote:
    Originally Posted by Eiko-chan View Post
    Leymah Gbowee and the women of Liberia beg to differ.
    *blinks*

    Wow.

    I stand corrected.
  8. Quote:
    Originally Posted by Elysienne View Post
    Ah, America... where they can't decide if having free healthcare is communist or fascist...
    Aren't you glad you cut us free?
  9. Quote:
    Originally Posted by Elysienne View Post
    it's 7am, i'm posting from a tiny, awful laptop with a tiny, awful keyboard, I've not slept all night and hyperbole is my friend. *nod*
    No, see... By taking you seriously, I was being the humourless feminist that never finds anything funny at all, ever, because I'm just so angry at the patriarchy for being the man, any man, rawr...
  10. Quote:
    Originally Posted by Elysienne View Post
    Sid, I love you for quoting that quote. It's the most awesome quote unintentionally in favour of social healthcare ever.

    Not that you can blame the guy from getting it wrong, though, I guess... I mean you'd never guess from his accent that Stephen Hawking was British.


    *HIDES*
    Well, yeah. He sounds like he's from Cupertino, ca. 1993.
  11. Quote:
    Originally Posted by Sorah View Post
    I'm an active feminist...
    Never meant to imply you weren't. At least you're willing to admit it, which is something far too many people these days refuse to do.

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    "I CAN SEE RUSSIA!"
    To be perfectly fair to her, she never actually said that she'd done this. That said, many of the things she did say *wink* and do were *wink* so much worse *wink*.
  12. Quote:
    Originally Posted by Elysienne View Post
    Speaking honestly, sexism will always be rife. Not a pleasant fact, but there you have it.

    Women will always be just one more facet of the downtrodden masses under the affluent white male demographic until the inevitable happens and every single woman in the world withholds sex. THEN you'll see some pretty damn rapid changes in policy.
    I don't think Lysistrata would really work in real life.

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    On a less flippant note, sexism really will be rife no matter what. Even if the sexual revolution really did draw to its natural conclusion and the country became a matriarchy... its just substituting one flavour of sexism for another.
    I don't necessarily think that that's the natural conclusion of the sexual revolution. It's not like the "glorious" "Communist" "revolution" in which the proletariat somehow gets to live in a utopian tyrrany of the mediocre majority at the end of it all...
  13. Quote:
    Originally Posted by Sorah View Post
    I didn't say it was the FAULT of it, I'm saying that it's an unfortunate consequence of sociocultural trends. I was just sayin' that now women don't even get the fuzzy end of the stick. So we still have lower paying jobs, we're STILL relegated to our ability to freaking breed, and sexism thrives strongly.
    It is an unfortunate trend, but the wording of that post was very vague. I personally think feminism gets a bad rap; it gets blamed for a lot of things not its fault, like anything certain political groups pin on it. (Don't get me wrong, feminism is to blame for lots of things, but it should only be blamed for the bad things its actually actively caused, like a certain ex-governor.)

    But yes, the last few reasons you've pointed out are among the reason why feminism is still relevant, regardless of the silly puff pieces that come out now and then.
  14. Quote:
    Originally Posted by Elysienne View Post
    Of course, it doesn't help that New Labour (boo, hiss) removed university grants where students would get money for being students, no strings attached.. and replaced it with student loans. Because, hey, nothing encourages the impoverished working classes of the country to better themselves like CRIPPLING DEBT.
    Works in America, doesn't it? Like our health system. You know, if Stephen Hawking had to rely on your British system, he'd be dead.

    Oh, wait...
  15. Quote:
    Originally Posted by Sorah View Post
    Bad Boy trend was a reactionary creation of women, not men. It's like the Politically Correct thing...in an effort to make this equal, feminism attempted to change things to "mailperson" "policeperson" etc...which is fine, except that it has now turned all the sexism inward. Just like racism PC-ing. So within that, the bad boy sprung from women asking to be treated equally. So...before, we were being treated WELL and politely, but we paid for it by not getting paid more, not having the same kind of equality respect....so now...we have the ILLUSION Of equality without the politeness. It's crap to be honest with you. You can be a ****** to me, just pay me as much as you are paying the next person. -_-
    Whoa, I'll have to disagree here and emphatically reject that the "bad boy" is a creation of women. A negative reaction to feminism is not necessarily the fault of feminism. The negative reaction to "political correctness" is not necessarily the fault of the simple concept that maybe racial slurs and prejudices are, y'know, bad.

    I'm pretty sure that women were treated crap before the sexual revolution and before most women got the simple temerity to think, "Hey, maybe it'd be nice if I could make decisions that actually impacting things!" or "Maybe I really am more than a complicated life-support system for the uterus!"

    It's just that back then the reason no woman complained was because more often than not they'd call her hysterical (root, hyster-), and either keep her quiet with paregoric or eyeshadow applied with fists.

    Now that there are women who're strong enough to not want to be pushed around, there are reactionary men, reacting to this progress and wanting to rewind it; there are people who are more than willing to be crude in that "ironic" sense because, oh hey, we're all beyond it now! as if it makes it better.
  16. Quote:
    Originally Posted by Elysienne View Post
    One would assume that this is a process rather than an instant transition, so I have to wonder why anyone would be unhappy with a person going through the process of asking the questions necessary to move towards becoming a happy, stable person. "What am I going to do with my life" is a very important question, one that may often require the support of friends and loved ones to get through. I also find the idea of anyone KNOWING with absolute certainty what they want to do with the rest of their life by the time they're going to university to be more the exception than the norm. Furthermore, just because a person is older doesn't necessarily make them any more self-aware than their younger counterpart. A case in point would be the classic mid-life crisis.
    Actually, in a lot of ways, there's a sort of growing quarter-life crisis trend. The youth are told to get into college. Then they get there, **** around for a few years (figuratively, literally), and then are spat out, often with scads of debt, and they stumble around their mid-twenties, trying to figure out where they want to go.

    Adolescence is stretching ever longer these days.
  17. Quote:
    Originally Posted by Heroid View Post
    Boys were expected to pursue and girls were expected to flee. If a girl got caught too easily, then society had nasty things to say about her, but boys were "just being boys".
    Eh, it still happens, to an extent. It's not like the female purity myth has gone away.

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    Things are more honest today (or at least have the potential to be). You don't have to posture and pretend that you're not sexually active if you're a young woman.
    I think this is a bit optimistic, to be honest. While there's less shaming going around in most circles, being a manwhore isn't nearly as frowned upon.

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    Smile more often anyway. (Smile when you say hello. And always smile sincere. If you can't find reason to smile, go see a therapist. Girls love it when guys flash a genuine smile.)
    But don't smile too much, that's kinda creepy. Like you're psychopathic or something. In fact, don't smile at all. Why are you still smiling? Are you hiding something? Do I have something on my face? Oh, god, I do, don't I? Just... just avert your eyes and keep away, or by the gods, I will stab you with this letter-opener...

    ...wait...
  18. Quote:
    Originally Posted by Flea_Mark_Evil View Post
    Correct. But the comic series is independant and fairly good. And still written by Weisman. You know, the guy the Disney head honchos turfed out resulting in the catastrophe that was the Goliath Chronicles?
    Ah, did not know that. I kinda only know it as Star Trek: Manhattan.
  19. Quote:
    Originally Posted by EvilBenFranklin View Post
    I await with undying dread the day that I shall need an Enigma machine to decode the daily news.
    One hopes that Bletchley Park will still be around. Seems it may be.
  20. Quote:
    Originally Posted by Sorah View Post
    In 2009, bad TV/Movies mean equates to THIS:

    Boys, I suggest you avert your eyes!

    *cackle* *runs*
    *coughs*

    What's the line I'm supposed to use? BRB, Bio?
  21. sidney_b

    Hi guys!

    Quote:
    Originally Posted by Bradders View Post
    It's okay, duder, I brought a keg!

    Party on!
    <3

    Beer Pong or Flip Cup?
  22. Quote:
    Originally Posted by Flea_Mark_Evil View Post
    ....

    This means I might have to start reading DC?

    My god. Sod it. I'll just stick to Hellboy and Gargoyles. There. No subversive media!
    Could be missing something, but Gargoyles?
  23. Quote:
    Originally Posted by PirateSeaHawk View Post
    Check this out!

    Wolverine with Mickey ears!

    Spidey dumps Mary Jean and is secretly dating Minnie!

    Super Donald!
    Rumor has it that Hannah Montana will be taking up the mantle of Dazzler, and be just as effective.
  24. sidney_b

    Hi guys!

    Quote:
    Originally Posted by Sorah View Post
    Aww, I actually have that National Geographic poster referenced there. I used to have it on one of my walls, but then I decided it was time to have, y'know. Classy art or something.
  25. Quote:
    Originally Posted by Sorah View Post
    The shortening of phrases into letters doesn't bug me...cause I do that. It's not from gaming but from texting and the like.
    I dislike it. Being concise in 160 characters or less doesn't mean you need to shave letters. It just means you need to be parsimonious and brilliant with your words.

    On the other hand, I do appreciate clever uses of 1337.