I've been having similar problems;expect when I log in,I can log in perfectly...when I select a server it pauses for a bit than knocks me back to the login with a small window saying "can not connect to DBserver"--I've tried restarting multiple times,restarting my computer,and reInstalling CoH/CoV which took atleast 15 hours..and still the same problem.
If anybody could provide a answer that would be wonderful;cause I just practically wasted $14.99 on a game I cant even play anymore.