For Zombies and Grave Knights, I'd say 3 Nucleolus (Acc/Dam) and either 3 Lysosome (Acc/Def Debuff/ToHit Debuff) or 3 Enzyme (End Red/Def Debuff/ToHit Debuff)
For your Lich (and possibly Dark Servant), 3 Peroxisome (Dam/Mez) and 3 Lysosome
Soul Extraction could be slotted the same as your Lich, but you'd be sacrificing frequency of use for functionality. That is, unless you slot it with 3 Peroxisome and 3 Membrane (Rech/Def Buff/ToHit Buff). Have a look here as to why.
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I'm have a lvl 50 necro/dark MM and i'm wondering if there are any hamidon enhancements i should slot her with or if i should just leave well enough alone. and if i was to buy a hami what would be the best option to go with? advice appreciated! (PS: I'm pretty much slotted up with all the IOs i fancy, just wondering how much better i can get
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