I've reported it to the Devs and all the questions I'm getting are trying to make it seem as if its my fault, I also said to check on the forums as I pointed out it was not just me, the answer was "what forums?".
So far I've been directed to use two different bits of software to see where MY problem lies, one of which costs 40 bucks which I am not going to pay as I believe its quite simply down to them and is quite probably due to the move to the states.
After a week of useless help from TechSupport I'm now getting a bit fed up with it all, as they don't seem to be taking use Euroserver users seriously enough.
Moan over and back to TechSupport now as after playing this afternoon, I logged out whilst my wife stayed AFK. She's still logged in whilst I cannot connect to the update server yet again. Maybe my suggestion that its down to traffic volumes through the update server is correct after all.