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There's a flaw in your reasoning. 3 year olds don't post on the forums. Adults, however, do. And it's not an unfair request for people to *act* like adults instead of throwing temper tantrums like 3 year olds.
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Amen. It's also worth noting that it's not just developers who might be offended by some of the whinesulting that goes on. There are people out there who might have worthwhile points of view to offer on a particular topic but don't want to post after seeing umpteen "devs are out to get us" (which doesn't make sense) and "well, I'm just going to quit because I'm being disrespected" (over-personalizing and over-reacting) posts. In my case, I often find myself making excuses for changes just because I don't want to be aligned in any way with those kinds of comments. Then, of course, there's the fact that if anyone offers any support for a developer "nerf" decision they get slammed as being kiss-ups (or other, even more insulting words).
The short version is that too many players take changes they feel are detrimental to their character(s) way too personally. That's not to say that there aren't good reasons to complain (hi, I'm running a spines/DA who was looking forward to cloak of fear, at least before this latest issue) but the attitude that comes out is too often counterproductive.
In my view, paying $15 a month doesn't entitle anyone to anything beyond access to the game provided. Some people, though, feel that it gives them license to treat the people they're paying like dirt (see professional sports for examples of entertainment fans feeling and acting in similarly crude, unacceptable fashion). That's a crying shame.