Ok all, except for the color list, which I have found to be any HEX color, and the transparency of the background bubble, all of this /bind stuff is here:
bindFAQ
If you put in HEX color palette into google you will get plenty of free html tutorial sites with the full HEX color list on em, and how to adjust the color with the HEX value. The transpaerncy bubble is used by adding 00 to 90 onto the end of the HEX value for the background color.
Like <bgcolor #00ff00080> would be semi transparent, and 00 would be totally clear....
Later!