Clu505

I am done with this matter. Enjoy your day folks. No drama intended.

No one tore up the work you had done. Nothing you did was touched. You know what I thought it was a win/win situation. You said you wanted to tinker in a base. I had a base that had some pretty cool concepts down in it, we were friends. I thought it would give you a place to tinker and I would get the benefit of having the quality of your added to the base.

I would've checked in with you, but as I said the person was ONLY showing me a concept and you weren't online at the time. They didn't tear up any of your work. That's the crazy part about all of this. Nothing you did was affected at all. Nothing was touched. You just jumped to the conclusion that I would've said to hell with all you did in the base and just someone else take over construction. I'm not like that, but you sure are making me out to be.

I apologized, I took everything that was added down and changed it exactly back how it was. I did not do this so you would continue working on the base. I did it because what I was being shown was never an absolute addition to the base. The builder knew it, was just showing me a concept. I was trying to give you the heads up just incase you logged onto to your builder toon came into the base and didn't know what was going on. I told you something was being tried out with the dancefloor. I was being showed something. I can not see how that meant I was destroying all you had done.

You used the exact metaphor that it was like a slap in the face. I have the tells archive to back it up. I'm not putting words in your mouth. If you had stopped for a moment to actually hear what was being done instead of logging in the middle of me trying to explain it we would've had a better outcome. You were so angry you wasn't listening to anything I was trying to tell you.

If you had've took the time to let me explain you would've realized that I was saying that Fomsie's dancefloor would've "tore up" the feel of what I was going for in the theme of the base. The sg theme is an Entertainment group/record label. The base is the buisness headquarters for said entertainment group with recording studios, a lounge, dj booth, and a modest dancefloor etc. A two tiered dancefloor would've been great for a night club, but would've been too much for the direction I was trying to go in with the SG. The whole "tearing down" statement didn't apply to anything you had done, but you weren't listening...you were reacting.

If I was asking someone to do permanent work on the base I would have checked with you. I concede that I should have check with you first on this occassion, but if you have this type of issue surrounding basebuilding, would be nice to let someone know. Matter of fact, maybe you just need to write a list of things that tick "Ardrea" off so that people can avoid your unfair, hurtful, and spiteful reaction to things that happen in game. After having you delete multiple toons that my toons and other people's toons were in storylines with. After having you blow up over stuff time and time again...it's just better we go our seperate ways. You reserve the right to your reaction and this time I am reserving the right to mine.

Ardrea version is a bit different from how I remember it. Ardrea sent a tell saying that she was thinking about creating a sg herself so she could tinker some more with basebuilding. I told her that I have a base in which the main basebuilder had been gone for 30 days. If she wanted to tinker with base building she could do so in that base if she wanted. She agreed and made a toon and began her work. I went and put a put about 150 million of influence into the base so she could have a lot to tinker with.

She got skills and she do amazing work. I am really impressed with what she did within the base. Taking nothing from her skills at all, if you have her helping out in your base you'll most likely be satisfied. I like everything she was doing within the base.

I had someone I'd met r/ping in the D, who came to the base to check it out. She was checking out the base and she said she had a nightclub VG awhile back and offered to show me the type of dancefloor she created in her VG. She no longer had access to the VG nightclub, so I couldn't alt redside so she could show me. I agreed to let her construct it in the base just to see how it looked. It was just someone showing me how they went about making a dance floor by using the green crates to give the dance floor a neon type affect to it. I repeat, I just was curious and wanted to see how the look. Wasn't an etched in stone deal at all.

Ardrea logged on while this work was being done and I told her that someone was showing me a different type of dancefloor in the base, and asked if she wanted to come check it out. She said not really and told me it was like a slap in the face to her. I told her I'm sorry, that I just wanted her to see that person's concept. It wasn't me saying her work wasn't good enough or that I wanted that person to take over base construction none of that. I appreciate all the effort she put into the base, Ardrea knows me and I thought of all the things she know me to be, ungrateful isn't one of them.

I asked the person to stop construction on the dancefloor. I continued talking to Ardrea letting her know I was changing everything back. I apologized for hurting her feelings. She logged off in the middle of the conversation. Just logged off, no goodbye or nothing. She's done that many times to me before. Anyway, after I had changed everything back how it was before the dancefloor work had been done, I logged off to take care of a few things. When I relogged I saw had removed her builder from the SG.

Ardrea knows that 'basegate' isn't the sole reason I unfriended her. We have known each other in game for 2+ years and I've been as good of a friend as she's had in this game. She's been that to me as well. I felt as a friend she should know by now that I wouldn't purposely do anything to hurt her feelings. It's like every hiccup along the road in trying to be her friend has been met with an extreme reaction. I've tried to have lots of patience with her concerning this and she knows it. I'm not going to go into the history because that doesn't relate to this issue.

I changed everything back, I apologized profusely. What more can I do? I am not programmed to know what will offend someone and what will not. I am tired of experiencing extreme reactions to what should be a forgiveable blunder between friends.